Homosexual, //what if...? Options

[razbus]

I know that there have been debates on homosexuals, but i would like to add a few things.

1. How do you feel about it? Is it okay? Is it wrong?

2. What if you knew someone for years... and then you find out that they were gay/lesbian... would that change the way you feel about them? Would you still respect them?

3. Should it be legal for them to marry?

Heres how i feel...

1. I personally do not see a problem with it. I have several gay/lesbian friends. That's the way they are. I dont see why it's such a big deal.

2. This actually happened to me. I knew this guy for like a year before he told me he was gay. I never saw it coming. It didn't change a thing. He's still my compadre. lol.

3. Absolutely. This is one thing i absolutely push for. How would this effect anyone negatively??


I really expect some comments on this one...

[*kryogenix*]

[quote=pandamonium,Nov 6 2004, 1:23 PM]




Where in the first statement do you see me saying being homosexual is a defect? i only said its normal i dont kno where you are coming up with these words... [/QUOTE]
You say you're born with it. It's detrimental. Hence it's a defect. You acknowledge this. Hence you pretty much say it's a defect. Common sense dude. [/QUOTE]
I didnt mean ,in anyway or anyhow, that being born homosexual is a defect. all i meant to say was being homosexual is normal just like being straight... you are born straight arent you? then what about the people born gay they have no choice.. they were born like that... the only reason why people think its bad cause of their religion .. if their religion states that its bad to be homosexual thats when its considered bad. like if you were a christian then probably most christians would think its bad.

And i really dont know how you got being born a homosexual is a defect out of my post.. [/quote]
Have you no common sense? Read my post again. Read it 10 times even. Try to make sense out of it.

Here, I'll save you the trouble of scrolling up.

[quote=kryogenix] You say you're born with it. It's detrimental. Hence it's a defect. You acknowledge this. Hence you pretty much say it's a defect. Common sense dude.[/quote]

read it again. slowly. several times. until you understand what i'm trying to say.


[quote=atpx]  Kryo, if you twist his words like that, it would also mean you're suggesting that being born straight is a defect. Because you were "born" being straight, right? Hey, you were born with a perfectly normal brain. You were born with it! That's a defect. Born with a perfectly working foot? Defect. Arm? Defect. Tongue? Defect.[/quote]

Look at my definition of defect again. DETRIMENTAL. How is a perfectly working arm/foot/brain/tongue detrimental? How is being straight detrimental.?

Jeez, you guys really should read my posts, you don't seem to understand them too well...

Anyway.

Rushx: I feel pretty much the same way. If they don't bother me, why should I hate them? But, many of these guys are hypocrites. They like expressing their gay pride. If I started a hetero pride parade, I would be called a bigot. They tell me to be open minded, but many people i've argued with call the bible "worthless" and "a bundle of lies."