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Obsessive boyfriends., The curse
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.
post Nov 5 2004, 06:13 PM
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Im in a brand-new relationship. With a guy named Don, who is cute and nice and funny and everything. But-

everytime i go out with the guy, i find them quite obsessive. Wanting to be with me every moment, calling me 24/7, talking to me online for hours, following me, staring at me, ect.

ITS SO f**kING ANNOYING.

ive broken up with many guys for that reason. Don is turning into that guy. I mean i like him but it ANNOYS THE HELL OUT OF ME AND IT BUGS ME. I want to make the relationship long-term, becuase ive never had a long term one before, because of problems and obsessiveness i seem to break up with the guy before the 3 week mark. How do i make this work? Is this just me? I seem to crush all i want and flirt all i want. Im not prude ive like made out with guys im not going out with so WHATS THE PROBLEM?
 
 
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LiNHy POO
post Nov 6 2004, 11:56 AM
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oooo yehh i know how that feels! but its nott badd... it juss shows that he really likes you and wants to spend as much time with you as he can. it can be annoying... you should tell him how you feel.
 

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I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   Obsessive boyfriends.   Nov 5 2004, 06:13 PM
xj_liana_tx   maybe he s fallin love with u, it could be.   Nov 5 2004, 06:16 PM
gnawxela   no idea...what xj_liana_tx said...eh   Nov 5 2004, 06:21 PM
blowpops69   actulay i like obessive boyfriends. cuz that means...   Nov 5 2004, 06:24 PM
teenprincess   Maybe your just that great of a person that they w...   Nov 5 2004, 06:31 PM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   yeah but i mean... isnt that controlling? im not f...   Nov 5 2004, 06:46 PM
silver rain   eh, i wish my ex was like that- maybe our relation...   Nov 5 2004, 06:50 PM
happygoluckyng   my one week aniversary is next wednesday...lol yea...   Nov 5 2004, 06:55 PM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   does anyone get how i feel? i want a life outside...   Nov 5 2004, 07:08 PM
yummy_delight   i understand completely. there is no problem wit...   Nov 5 2004, 08:15 PM
Shattered_Hope   everyone deserves a warning so give him one.   Nov 5 2004, 08:46 PM
jennifish   ur just too addictive. ahahah. yea, give him a war...   Nov 5 2004, 08:48 PM
tresa1992   Maybe you could tell him you need a little more sp...   Nov 5 2004, 08:50 PM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   okay thanks guys.   Nov 5 2004, 10:39 PM
dani41790   well maybe he likes u alot. just tell him how you ...   Nov 6 2004, 02:48 AM
jennypie   honestly tell him you need some space (don't f...   Nov 6 2004, 04:57 AM
nlgrl   in a couple weeks it might wear off... ive never h...   Nov 6 2004, 11:23 AM
Weird addiction   0mg i hate guys like that,i usually dump them when...   Nov 6 2004, 11:39 AM
LiNHy POO   oooo yehh i know how that feels! but its nott ...   Nov 6 2004, 11:56 AM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   i will. i think its just the new relationship thin...   Nov 6 2004, 04:04 PM
Days Nearly Over   well.. moved.   Nov 6 2004, 05:06 PM
anger_is_my_friend   yeah i hate it when guys are like that.. i mean yo...   Nov 6 2004, 05:44 PM
clumsin3ss   that happens to me too....i hate clingy guys!   Nov 6 2004, 09:09 PM
eversosweet   hey probably loves you tons, and is afraid to lose...   Nov 6 2004, 09:10 PM
aznhunnie6o1   maybe u shuld talk to him about it... it mite help...   Nov 6 2004, 11:24 PM
3ssx   i agree with blowpops69....it probably means they ...   Nov 7 2004, 12:32 AM
B1onde_1ns1de   QUOTEactulay i like obessive boyfriends. cuz that ...   Nov 7 2004, 01:05 AM
sunissed14127   you should talk to him about it. if the talk doesn...   Nov 7 2004, 11:28 AM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   lol. okay thanks guys.   Nov 7 2004, 12:51 PM
acidophilus   haha I've never been in a relationship so I w...   Nov 7 2004, 01:00 PM
ryfitaDF   it sounds like you need to tell him to back off a ...   Nov 7 2004, 01:34 PM


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