here comes the bride.., congratulations! Options

[ThePrincessofTKD]

the topic name maybe nice looking but..

my friend wanted to get married to her boyfriend (1 year and 4 months) and shes only 14 and hes da same age..both of their parents wanted were urging them to get married fer some reason and she said that they really loved each other and all...but i thought that was a horrid idea...i kept on sayin 'what if you lose attraction toward each other in da future??...why can`t you wait `till yur 18?'...still she was stubborn and wanted to get married but she was unsure...she kept on askin her other friends but they would give diff answers...i didnt want her to waste her teenage years, married already...she`s not pregnant or anything...she`s not in a hurry to have sex...she friggin told me she was gonna do it when she`s 18...thats like...kinda stupid...(how can someone wait that long?!hahaha..)..but she`s not married yet...she has second thoughts whether or not to get married..

point is..

when you think you`ve found the "one"...should you get married to that person?...are teen marriages an 'okay' thing?...and when would be the right age?

there are too many divorces in america nowadays...and we are the future...we should cherish our love...and obide by the words "`till death do us part.."..i know all of you know the words during a wedding ceremony...

and we, girls, love to dream about our future weddings!

[xjjajeengx]

i think its scary to marry at a young age. i mean, i thikn i would get doubts like "omg he's cheating on me...?!" and stuf... and plus, being a tennager= hsavent lived out life to the max yet... not even half way there i think* so like... i think she should marry him wen she's a bit older (like 20 or so) and wen she TRULY knows that he's the man. i mean, if she is having second thoughts, that means that she could be doubting... and that's not good if she's planning to marry him.

is it common to get married at such a young age anyway? first time i've heard of this kind of situation...

hmm... one more thing.14 is such a young age to be fully admitted to someone as future "wife or "hubby." so like... they should at elast date for like a really long time before marrying... i heard that people who marry at a younger age tend to divorce alot... and sometimes marriage in can lead to problems in career lives, etc... so i think she should wait until she is at least 21. or at least that's my opinion.
woah... crazy parents. i would never let my child marry at such a young age... they must like their future daughter-in-law and son-in-law a lot. my mom would kill me if i said i was gunna marry.