ur first love, it hurts.... Options

[adnilamila_fe]

i feel so awful right now. my boyfriend, who i love so much, broke up with me. he loved me too and i agree to end the relationship because things weren't going the way it was when we first started going out. it was like the spark wasn't even there like it was in the beginning of our relationship. the past couple of weeks, we grew kinda distant from each other, well, i grew distant...at least thats how it seemed to him. he felt ignored, sad, confused, and scared. and i dun blame him. i had a lot of stress the past weeks. and we talked about it on tuesday and we were crying so much cuz we didn't know wat was going to happen to us. today it didn't change that much. we barely talked to each other and stuff...so we decided to end our relationship. we were great friends before we started going out and we decided to be friends again to see how it would be this time, to see if the spark would come back. and i really hope the spark does come back. i really love him. and i feel so confused and miserable and totally sad rite now....i dun know wat to do...

[*stephinika*]

You're so young. Why even bother. Enjoy life while you can! Enjoy it while your friends can't backstab you. Enjoy it when boys are still immature and you can push them around and make fun of them! Drool over the hot senior guys! Occupy yourself with other things, like school and friends and family. Those are the most important things. Love should be an extra add-on, something that was just there additionally. Relationships should be at the end of your list.

I agree. don't worry about it, just relax. yes i know, we all feel that way at one point in our lives. i know i did but you know what? i never said i loved him. just liked. a hell of a lot. cause i knew it wasn't actual love. just relax and think it over. you'll be fine.