sex., important? Options

[dreamerOi]

does sex pressure you?
is it important to you?
why would you have it with the person you had it with?
what age do you think youd have it, include pressure, force, &other sources?

personally at times sex does pressure me. but its really important to me. well at least the first time. whoever i have sex with is because i love him. &i trust him. truthfully i might feel pressured to have sex. but ive already been pressured quite the amount of times& ive resisted all those times. but i think i might end up doing it around age 17-18. only because the world has become a different place. i wouldve liked to have it when i got married or something. but sometimes you dont know.

[xquizit]

does sex pressure you?
it has in the past, but not anymore. its natural to want to have sex with someone you know very well and love and care deeply for.

is it important to you?
somewhat. i mean, its the most intimate way to express your love for someone. but of course, there are other ways of doing so so if for whatever reason, i couldn't anymore, i'd be fine.

why would you have it with the person you had it with?
because i was ready and was in love. still am.

what age do you think youd have it, include pressure, force, &other sources?
the first time i had sex, i was 16 and i was raped by my 19 year old boyfriend. i've learned a lot from it so in a way, i don't regret that it happenned. things happen for a reason. perhaps if it hadn't happenned i wouldn't be with who am with now.