christianity n sex Options

[carmi96]

im roman catholic n im NOT gna hav sex til im married. i know its an abominable sin but i really dont understand y we cant, wat makes it so bad. i need an answer 4 sum1 hu is more religiously together as i am i asked my friends and they didnt even kno y. i wuld ask sum1 smarter say..my parents, my priest buttt theyd juss get suspicious n id be embarassed. can any1 help me out?

[angelbaby317]

Its sorta like this:

You have a beautiful rose. It all red with silky petals. This rose resembles your virginity. So 2 guys have this lovely rose(virginity). They both meet girls. The first guy says to himself. 'Its just sex. God will forgive me.' and the other guy says 'No. I can wait till marraige.' Since the first guy had sex he pulled a rose petal off his beautiful rose. Now, the first guy continues his actions in having sex before marraige and pulling of a rose petal each time. The second continues to say no. They both get married. The first guy hand his new wife a rose with no petals on it because he's already lost them all from giving it to all the other women. The second guy gives his rose to his new wife that is filled with the prettiest rose petals you've ever seen. Now which rose do you want to give? Which rose would you want to recieve? The dead rose or the alive rose. Think about it.

Religiously, we weren't even supposed to be attracted to the opposite sex. Jesus never was. So God wants us to wait for marraige to share somthing that sacred. Because if Jesus were to get married, thats what he would of done.

I'm highly religious in my Roman Catholic faith. I've already made the promise and have gone to the retreats. I've already promised God that I'm going to wait til marriage to have sex. And I intend to to keep that promise. If you go to a retreat they will explain it a whole lot easier and it actually makes sense why you would want to give it to your special someone and not just anyone on the streets.