My ex-boyfriend hit me..., but im still madly in love with him. |
 Oct 27 2004, 06:16 PM
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CrrrAZY GiRly  Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,405  |
ok... When i was a freshman in highschool i began to go out with this boy and i fell for him very fast and he fell for me fast as well. We were together for 2 years and towards the end like the last 4 or 5 months he began to change. He started getting mad and posessive and he hit me a few times and jerked me around a lot and even tried to choke me once. I found out soon after we broke up that he had started doing pot. Now we talk even though i broke up with him and i still love him dearly. he loves me as well and we've been talking about getting back together. He's quit doing pot and as far as i know stopped hanging out with most of the people that gave him pot. Should i stay away or consider getting back together with him? 'cause he's a really great guy and when he's not doing pot he's so sweet and nice and caring and a real gentleman... i dont know what to do. please help.
 "Buildings burn, People die, but Real love is forever...." -The Crow |
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Nov 1 2004, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(Fallen4Mshadows @ Oct 27 2004, 6:16 PM) ok... When i was a freshman in highschool i began to go out with this boy and i fell for him very fast and he fell for me fast as well. We were together for 2 years and towards the end like the last 4 or 5 months he began to change. He started getting mad and posessive and he hit me a few times and jerked me around a lot and even tried to choke me once. I found out soon after we broke up that he had started doing pot. Now we talk even though i broke up with him and i still love him dearly. he loves me as well and we've been talking about getting back together. He's quit doing pot and as far as i know stopped hanging out with most of the people that gave him pot. Should i stay away or consider getting back together with him? 'cause he's a really great guy and when he's not doing pot he's so sweet and nice and caring and a real gentleman... i dont know what to do. please help. "Buildings burn, People die, but Real love is forever...." -The Crow first of all, you can't "do" pot but you can smoke it. but trust me, pot doesn't do that to a person. pot is like alchohol, except when someone's high they don't become violent like alchohol sometimes can, they become really passive and goofy. if he ever hit you it's because he's an a-hole. and you definetly don't need to put up with that. i understand you may love him, but that's part of what traps women in abusive relationships. don't get back into it. trust me. |
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Fallen4Mshadows My ex-boyfriend hit me... Oct 27 2004, 06:16 PM
mSz_dOrk_anGeL Oh no .. DO NOT i say DO NOT get back togeather wi... Oct 27 2004, 06:24 PM AsianUniQ one lesson in life, people will never change, even... Oct 30 2004, 01:31 AM tainted_angel These are your options:
1. Continue talking to him... Oct 30 2004, 02:24 AM wind&fire yeh but once it looks like hell hit you again get ... Oct 30 2004, 02:30 AM MasteRxKiD If you get back with him, you deserve to be hit ag... Oct 30 2004, 02:36 AM Weird addiction dont get baq wif him again,he might kill ya!... Oct 30 2004, 10:35 AM Perfection Don't get back with him...he maybe lying and s... Oct 30 2004, 12:45 PM angelbaby317 the minute a guy hits you, LEAVE! There was so... Oct 30 2004, 01:09 PM __Nessa do not get baq widd him!! are you crazzeee... Oct 30 2004, 01:50 PM dreamerOi do not get back with him whatsoeverrrrrrrrr. youll... Oct 30 2004, 01:59 PM nycgrl102 u shouldnt go bak with him. he mite be fine now bu... Oct 30 2004, 02:11 PM xoMeGGerz14xo Please dont get back wit him! i see how my fri... Oct 31 2004, 09:16 AM nlgrl well if u really love him... get back with him but... Oct 31 2004, 09:24 AM Shattered_Hope hmm, well, not many people, in this case, guys, wi... Oct 31 2004, 04:43 PM I.Luff.Emo.Boys. [n]NO[/b]
DO NOT get back together with him. That... Oct 31 2004, 05:38 PM slurp it really depends on if youre willing to take that... Oct 31 2004, 10:48 PM xd0rkette hm. im not sure about this one.. well my mind says... Oct 31 2004, 11:40 PM RiC3xBoy QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 30 2004, 2:36 AM)If yo... Nov 1 2004, 12:17 AM Madame C That's a big giant "no." One hit is... Nov 1 2004, 12:53 AM sweetxsimplicity Well yeah, since you both really love each other, ... Nov 1 2004, 12:56 AM lilxl0ser no offense to all tha people that sed no...but i t... Nov 1 2004, 05:44 PM lilanglbaby418 please don't go out with him another time. wha... Nov 1 2004, 06:41 PM faithin_felix he still loves you i think. my mom hits me and she... Nov 1 2004, 09:02 PM LadyXTor I don't know...this guy sounds scary. If you ... Nov 3 2004, 12:58 AM lilxroxy are you sure....? if you love him. and depending o... Nov 3 2004, 03:18 AM Tag_youre_it Pot only makes people do things when they're H... Nov 8 2004, 01:41 AM dani41790 idk... if he truely has changed then i guess u can... Nov 8 2004, 01:43 AM Oreo_bro Cycle of violence:
*Tension Building: Minor conf... Nov 8 2004, 05:08 AM someflipguy Use your best judgement! But, remember people... Nov 8 2004, 11:17 AM JessJR1022 he hit you....... why would you wanna go back........ Nov 8 2004, 11:19 AM TangoMango Stay away as far as possible!!! You do... Nov 8 2004, 12:34 PM krnxswat I don't think she bothers to come here anymore... Nov 8 2004, 03:36 PM jambaJUICE 1. Stop with the "love" bit.
2. Don... Nov 8 2004, 05:52 PM mr_brigtside Hes not worht your time! Nov 8 2004, 08:08 PM wayne wtf? no... i have nothing to say on this but wtf..... Nov 8 2004, 09:37 PM houjin_himo DONT get back with him....because even though they... Nov 14 2004, 02:56 AM Dusck pot is bad stuff! Nov 14 2004, 03:02 AM bigpoppaproppy he's not worth it....domestic abuse will escal... Nov 14 2004, 04:13 AM yanners definitely not! on the surface he may have ch... Nov 14 2004, 04:58 AM Fallen4Mshadows I do still come here to see what people have said.... Nov 14 2004, 08:59 AM Shortiiex if you think he has changed, get back together wit... Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM bigpoppaproppy QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM)if yo... Nov 14 2004, 01:02 PM
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