friends of benefit, is it right? |
 Oct 30 2004, 10:45 AM
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idunno. me and my friends(girls) were talking about relationships. and they said what girls really want is a friend of benefit and not a relationshiop cuz they last longer and said that girls aren't pressured about them as much as relationships. but my other group of friends(mostly guys) think friends of benefit are pretty shallow and it means that you aren't dedicated to that person to be in a relationship with them. and both sides have good reasons but i don't know which is better.
what do you think? your thoughts would be helpful |
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Oct 30 2004, 11:47 AM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
welllll
it depends on what you take the meaning as.. friends with benefits.. if you 2 r friends. it should be easy to communicate [in every way] and you should not have any bf/gf feeling for each other in the beginnin. so what shallow r we talkin about. you not gonna date her anywayz. and usually itz all about the sex. but i mean you 2 can still be friends. unless one of them dumb enough put real emotions into it. like b4 you start doin it.. both of you better understand and try ur best not to put in emotions. [itz not impossible] just think about the sex thatz it. lol. itz not BAD BAD. only that both of u get wht you want without any attachment. and therez no pressure. nd iono what you talkin baout. i think most of the guys want friends with benefits. but grls are the dumb ones that put in emotions. X |
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kaypopkru friends of benefit Oct 30 2004, 10:45 AM
LiNHy POO i heard that sometimes feelings get involed and on... Oct 30 2004, 11:07 AM royalfreshness QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 30 2004, 12:07 PM)i hea... Oct 30 2004, 11:13 AM blowpops69 i thought it was friends with benifits? but okay
... Oct 30 2004, 11:22 AM nlgrl no. cause i'd like to only share myself with s... Oct 31 2004, 09:27 AM Edele No. It ends up tearing you apart. That is all. Oct 31 2004, 10:36 AM x____duckii What your guy friends said is true. It isn't r... Oct 31 2004, 11:00 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 wow, u got it all backwards.
MOST GUYS , the aver... Oct 31 2004, 12:58 PM
Shattered_Hope lol, very true...no better words couldve been said... Oct 31 2004, 01:59 PM |
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