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My ex-boyfriend hit me..., but im still madly in love with him.
Fallen4Mshadows
post Oct 27 2004, 06:16 PM
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ok... When i was a freshman in highschool i began to go out with this boy and i fell for him very fast and he fell for me fast as well. We were together for 2 years and towards the end like the last 4 or 5 months he began to change. He started getting mad and posessive and he hit me a few times and jerked me around a lot and even tried to choke me once. I found out soon after we broke up that he had started doing pot. Now we talk even though i broke up with him and i still love him dearly. he loves me as well and we've been talking about getting back together. He's quit doing pot and as far as i know stopped hanging out with most of the people that gave him pot. Should i stay away or consider getting back together with him? 'cause he's a really great guy and when he's not doing pot he's so sweet and nice and caring and a real gentleman... i dont know what to do. please help. _unsure.gif

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SarahxJoy
post Oct 30 2004, 02:24 AM
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What the fack.
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These are your options:
1. Continue talking to him and comforting and such until he is completely done with pot and those who gave it to him.
2. Go cold turkey on him.
3. Get with him and seek out your posibilities of how things will eventually end with him.

But, keep in mind:
People never change.
People say things that they may later on realize, aren't true.
You'll move on, eventually.

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Fallen4Mshadows   My ex-boyfriend hit me...   Oct 27 2004, 06:16 PM
mSz_dOrk_anGeL   Oh no .. DO NOT i say DO NOT get back togeather wi...   Oct 27 2004, 06:24 PM
AsianUniQ   one lesson in life, people will never change, even...   Oct 30 2004, 01:31 AM
tainted_angel   These are your options: 1. Continue talking to him...   Oct 30 2004, 02:24 AM
wind&fire   yeh but once it looks like hell hit you again get ...   Oct 30 2004, 02:30 AM
MasteRxKiD   If you get back with him, you deserve to be hit ag...   Oct 30 2004, 02:36 AM
Weird addiction   dont get baq wif him again,he might kill ya!...   Oct 30 2004, 10:35 AM
Perfection   Don't get back with him...he maybe lying and s...   Oct 30 2004, 12:45 PM
angelbaby317   the minute a guy hits you, LEAVE! There was so...   Oct 30 2004, 01:09 PM
__Nessa   do not get baq widd him!! are you crazzeee...   Oct 30 2004, 01:50 PM
dreamerOi   do not get back with him whatsoeverrrrrrrrr. youll...   Oct 30 2004, 01:59 PM
nycgrl102   u shouldnt go bak with him. he mite be fine now bu...   Oct 30 2004, 02:11 PM
xoMeGGerz14xo   Please dont get back wit him! i see how my fri...   Oct 31 2004, 09:16 AM
nlgrl   well if u really love him... get back with him but...   Oct 31 2004, 09:24 AM
Shattered_Hope   hmm, well, not many people, in this case, guys, wi...   Oct 31 2004, 04:43 PM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   [n]NO[/b] DO NOT get back together with him. That...   Oct 31 2004, 05:38 PM
slurp   it really depends on if youre willing to take that...   Oct 31 2004, 10:48 PM
xd0rkette   hm. im not sure about this one.. well my mind says...   Oct 31 2004, 11:40 PM
RiC3xBoy   QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 30 2004, 2:36 AM)If yo...   Nov 1 2004, 12:17 AM
TBoltzbabe   QUOTE(Fallen4Mshadows @ Oct 27 2004, 6:16 PM)...   Nov 1 2004, 12:39 AM
Madame C   That's a big giant "no." One hit is...   Nov 1 2004, 12:53 AM
sweetxsimplicity   Well yeah, since you both really love each other, ...   Nov 1 2004, 12:56 AM
lilxl0ser   no offense to all tha people that sed no...but i t...   Nov 1 2004, 05:44 PM
lilanglbaby418   please don't go out with him another time. wha...   Nov 1 2004, 06:41 PM
faithin_felix   he still loves you i think. my mom hits me and she...   Nov 1 2004, 09:02 PM
LadyXTor   I don't know...this guy sounds scary. If you ...   Nov 3 2004, 12:58 AM
lilxroxy   are you sure....? if you love him. and depending o...   Nov 3 2004, 03:18 AM
Tag_youre_it   Pot only makes people do things when they're H...   Nov 8 2004, 01:41 AM
dani41790   idk... if he truely has changed then i guess u can...   Nov 8 2004, 01:43 AM
Oreo_bro   Cycle of violence: *Tension Building: Minor conf...   Nov 8 2004, 05:08 AM
someflipguy   Use your best judgement! But, remember people...   Nov 8 2004, 11:17 AM
JessJR1022   he hit you....... why would you wanna go back........   Nov 8 2004, 11:19 AM
TangoMango   Stay away as far as possible!!! You do...   Nov 8 2004, 12:34 PM
krnxswat   I don't think she bothers to come here anymore...   Nov 8 2004, 03:36 PM
jambaJUICE   1. Stop with the "love" bit. 2. Don...   Nov 8 2004, 05:52 PM
mr_brigtside   Hes not worht your time!   Nov 8 2004, 08:08 PM
wayne   wtf? no... i have nothing to say on this but wtf.....   Nov 8 2004, 09:37 PM
houjin_himo   DONT get back with him....because even though they...   Nov 14 2004, 02:56 AM
Dusck   pot is bad stuff!   Nov 14 2004, 03:02 AM
bigpoppaproppy   he's not worth it....domestic abuse will escal...   Nov 14 2004, 04:13 AM
yanners   definitely not! on the surface he may have ch...   Nov 14 2004, 04:58 AM
Fallen4Mshadows   I do still come here to see what people have said....   Nov 14 2004, 08:59 AM
Shortiiex   if you think he has changed, get back together wit...   Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM
bigpoppaproppy   QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM)if yo...   Nov 14 2004, 01:02 PM
tooeffingcrazy   if a guy hits you, espeicially your bf, you should...   Nov 14 2004, 02:34 PM


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