<3 is it worth it?, what do you think |
 Oct 26 2004, 03:43 PM
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okay, so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months now, and we really -really- do care about each other, and people know that. and everyone is always asking us if we've had sex yet, and no- we havent. and people find it hard to believe, but i dont know if its them that are just shallow, or if im really that pathetic. we're both only 14, and its not that i dont 'love' him enough, i just think im still young. i doubt ill wait until im married, but i think 14 is young. im pretty innocent actually, i mean we've done things, but not over the top. i just dont know if we're ready, or if im even ready. or if he is at that, we really respect each other and i wouldnt want to screw anything up.
i just wanted to know what anyone else thought about it. i know hes worth it, but i wanted to get other peoples point of view. what would you do? |
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Oct 26 2004, 10:37 PM
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ever read the book "what happend to nancy?" Be careful.
Anyways, 14 is to young, im sorry but..14 u can hardly get your permit its, in my honest opinion, and yes i can be wrong but, to me 14 is way to young to really know for real if you love him that much to lose something that u can never give to anyone eles. Sex isnt needed to make a relationship great if your with some one you truly care about. sex just adds to the experiance, but true love doesnt involve a bed or a table counter, true love only needs the heart of 2 to be intertwined when looking into their eyes, feeling their embrace, or savoring their kiss. Sex isnt needed in a realtionship at 14, and if it ever gets to the point where its sex up or break up, just end it because its not worth getting a desise or the emotional hurt. so anyways..yeah..14 is to young..i say wait till u get married or u get older, but i mean, 14? no way |
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inside_my_head <3 is it worth it? Oct 26 2004, 03:43 PM
eversosweet well since you think 14 is too young to have sex (... Oct 26 2004, 03:56 PM souldreamers awe sweet puppy love. I think you should keep it ... Oct 26 2004, 03:57 PM mz anita xP awws =] well, its considered to b a young age, but... Oct 26 2004, 04:08 PM sammi rules you i wouldn't so early on. maybe it's because... Oct 26 2004, 04:36 PM stephinika i think thats good of you to wait. yes you're ... Oct 26 2004, 04:38 PM LiNHy POO i think its good that you want to wait! i agre... Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM blowpops69 this should maybe bein relationships..but....
if... Oct 26 2004, 04:58 PM Just_Dream You know, you might regret it. That's the down... Oct 26 2004, 09:58 PM 177emories just KNOW that you wont regret it later on... like... Oct 26 2004, 10:34 PM christiee_nax pshht my old best friend and her boyf have been to... Oct 26 2004, 10:36 PM Shattered_Hope Love is worth it..but errr..thats a kinda big step... Oct 27 2004, 05:57 PM
LittleLulu ok so ppl r like " OMG U HAVENT DONE IT YET... Oct 27 2004, 06:03 PM |
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