<3 is it worth it?, what do you think |
 Oct 26 2004, 03:43 PM
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okay, so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months now, and we really -really- do care about each other, and people know that. and everyone is always asking us if we've had sex yet, and no- we havent. and people find it hard to believe, but i dont know if its them that are just shallow, or if im really that pathetic. we're both only 14, and its not that i dont 'love' him enough, i just think im still young. i doubt ill wait until im married, but i think 14 is young. im pretty innocent actually, i mean we've done things, but not over the top. i just dont know if we're ready, or if im even ready. or if he is at that, we really respect each other and i wouldnt want to screw anything up.
i just wanted to know what anyone else thought about it. i know hes worth it, but i wanted to get other peoples point of view. what would you do? |
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Oct 26 2004, 09:58 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You know, you might regret it. That's the downside. There are people who do regret it. I mean, even if you care about him. Do you believe in premaritial sex?
You know, there's this girl who dated a guy who was a little older than her. Actually, i'm nto sure how much older lol. Anyway, he tricked her and made her believe that he was still a virgin. So he dated for for a long time and then he said that he "loved" her and then he said that he loved her so much that he wanted to have intercourse with her. And bleh some other stuff happened and then she and him had sex. She was still a virgin, but she really thought he loved her and turns out, she was a "hit and run" victim lol. He had sex with her then broke up with her. Turns out, he wasn't a virgin and yea she was really angry about that. I know this isn't really that much relevant to your case, but I mean, you never know. You should save it until you and him have bee together longer. Yes, you both are only 15. Ask yourself this, do you honestly want to have sex at such a young age? People may think differently of you once they find out that you and your boyfriend had fooled around and had sex. If you truly think you'll be together with him forever, then go ahead. But remember, things can change. So don't do something you'll end up regretting. You have your whole life to enjoy the beauty of love.. and sex... lol. Don't rush into something. :] Just some advice. |
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inside_my_head <3 is it worth it? Oct 26 2004, 03:43 PM
eversosweet well since you think 14 is too young to have sex (... Oct 26 2004, 03:56 PM souldreamers awe sweet puppy love. I think you should keep it ... Oct 26 2004, 03:57 PM mz anita xP awws =] well, its considered to b a young age, but... Oct 26 2004, 04:08 PM sammi rules you i wouldn't so early on. maybe it's because... Oct 26 2004, 04:36 PM stephinika i think thats good of you to wait. yes you're ... Oct 26 2004, 04:38 PM LiNHy POO i think its good that you want to wait! i agre... Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM blowpops69 this should maybe bein relationships..but....
if... Oct 26 2004, 04:58 PM 177emories just KNOW that you wont regret it later on... like... Oct 26 2004, 10:34 PM christiee_nax pshht my old best friend and her boyf have been to... Oct 26 2004, 10:36 PM Oreo_bro ever read the book "what happend to nancy?... Oct 26 2004, 10:37 PM Shattered_Hope Love is worth it..but errr..thats a kinda big step... Oct 27 2004, 05:57 PM
LittleLulu ok so ppl r like " OMG U HAVENT DONE IT YET... Oct 27 2004, 06:03 PM |
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