<3 is it worth it?, what do you think Options

[inside_my_head]

okay, so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months now, and we really -really- do care about each other, and people know that. and everyone is always asking us if we've had sex yet, and no- we havent. and people find it hard to believe, but i dont know if its them that are just shallow, or if im really that pathetic. we're both only 14, and its not that i dont 'love' him enough, i just think im still young. i doubt ill wait until im married, but i think 14 is young. im pretty innocent actually, i mean we've done things, but not over the top. i just dont know if we're ready, or if im even ready. or if he is at that, we really respect each other and i wouldnt want to screw anything up.

i just wanted to know what anyone else thought about it. i know hes worth it, but i wanted to get other peoples point of view. what would you do?

[*stephinika*]

i think thats good of you to wait. yes you're young, and if you and him aren't ready, then don't do it. its simple. who gives a rats ass what everyone says. if you don't want to, then don't. its your lives. i'm almost 16 and i've been with my boyfriend just over a year now, and we certainly haven't had sex. and we won't be very soon i can assure you.