I'm really scared, I'm afraid of my boyfriend |
I'm really scared, I'm afraid of my boyfriend |
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My boyfriend lives like 30 minutes away from me. We started going out like 5 months ago. The first month was great he was really cool and nice. Then all of a sudden he was slitting his wrists and smoking. I knew that he was gothic and punk and stuff but he was just acting way too evil, though I am not implying that goths and punks are evil. Anyway, then his friends started talking to me and telling me that he's a "pothead". I thought they were just trying to make me break up with him. So I ignored them. Then one day we were all hangning out and he was wearing a black t-shirt and I could see the scars on his arms. It really scared me. And then he asked me if I wanted to smoke some pot. I said "No" and he got all mad and started saying that I just didn't like him and then he tried to hit me but I knew that he was going to so i moved back and he started yeeling and then his sister came downstairs and talked to him and I left. Now all of his friends and he are telling me how sorry he is and that he'll never do it again. But I know that sometimes people say that but it always happens again. But I really truly like him and I want to see him get better. But if I reject him I'm afraid he's going to continue cutting himself and be very hurt. Please give whatever helpful advice you have!!!
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QUOTE(Danny @ Oct 24 2004, 6:34 PM) wow... well... you can do one of two things, do whate everyone says and dump him or just try and help him. afterall, if you like him, you like him. you cant control your own emotions ... personally... i wouldnt dump him but then again... im always too nice too people.. ![]() What kind of advice is that is? If she tries to help, I bet you that he would hit her or do something worse. You can't help him, but maybe like a therapist or something could. Like x3_kelly said, they'll always do it again. We can't make you leave him, but we can tell you that the abuse will get worser and worser. He already tried to hit you. You're scared of him. Doesn't that tell you enough? |
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