christianity n sex Options

[carmi96]

im roman catholic n im NOT gna hav sex til im married. i know its an abominable sin but i really dont understand y we cant, wat makes it so bad. i need an answer 4 sum1 hu is more religiously together as i am i asked my friends and they didnt even kno y. i wuld ask sum1 smarter say..my parents, my priest buttt theyd juss get suspicious n id be embarassed. can any1 help me out?

[MusicalAngel]

Ok... the easiest way to explain this is... if you had sex before marriage, there is an emotional bond that goes with it. Just like you will never forget your first love, you're never going to forget your first sexual partner either. (And if you say that you're positive you're going to marry this dude, so what's the big deal? How do you know what the future brings? I've seen many many many people break up after long engagements... just keep that in mind) So after you have your first love, and after you have your first sexual partner, in a sense you give a piece of your heart away to them. Think about it. You will never forget about them, from time to time, you'll even think about them. Is that going to be fair to your husband? When you get married, don't you want to be able to give your WHOLE heart to him and only think about those memories ABOUT him? How special do you want sex to be with the person you marry? How much do you want to be "the one" with him or her- instead of five or eighteen or thirty? It's easy to say "I love you". But only "I do" says you're really one, for always.

God just wants you to save your whole self for your husband and most importantly, God wants you to save yourself for HIM. He put you on Earth to serve HIM and to do good for the glory of God. Does that make sense? He wants you to remain pure until you are ready for sex. And until then, you can fill up your time serving Him. The temptation that you feel when you want to have sex, is Satan's work. Don't give into temptation. Instead, fill your heart and soul with God's words and work to serve him better. If you have any questions, objections, comments, you can PM me if you like.

For those of you who disagree because of some reasons of your own, I just wanna say, that with this topic, there is no way to please everyone. And i'm telling her what I, as a Christian, was taught. I'm just responding to her question. So, if you disagree or dont' like my answer or whatnot.... don't read it then please. Because this was not meant to offend anyone nor was it meant to please anyone. It was meant to answer her question. Point blank.