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help...bf problems.., my bf dosnt talk like at all
glitter____soup
post Oct 21 2004, 05:44 PM
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my boyfriend dosnt talk alot, only when we werent going out when we just friends, thats the only time he talked alot... cry.gif ok so, help..how do i get him to be boyfriend material..???
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Just_Dream
post Oct 24 2004, 12:17 AM
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Try to ask him what he's interested in. And tell him your interests, that way, you and him can compare. And most of all, maybe you can get him to be interested in what you like to do and whatnot lol. At first, I didn't talk that much with my bf. But I mean after like a few days, he called me and well I told him about my life and asked him about his. You should try to get him to open up. Maybe he's shy and/or insecure with himself and he can't seem to say anything. You should reassure him that you're willing to listen to whatever he has to say and that communication is an important factor in the growth of a relationship.

If he doesn't want to open up to you and he doesn't really care, then maybe it's time you get someone new...
 

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glitter____soup   help...bf problems..   Oct 21 2004, 05:44 PM
goofipinay   well u can try u kno actin like u were juss friend...   Oct 21 2004, 05:47 PM
Shortiiex   ok maybe he is shy or he doesn't like to be se...   Oct 21 2004, 06:12 PM
LiNHy POO   i guess maybe shy or nervous? you really should ta...   Oct 21 2004, 06:13 PM
yummy_delight   :sigh: noooooob. you can't get anyone to be b...   Oct 21 2004, 06:17 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Yeah. He's either shy, nervous, uncomfortable,...   Oct 21 2004, 06:53 PM
babyxyelloe   you can't get anyone to be boyfriend material....   Oct 21 2004, 07:01 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   train him like a dog   Oct 21 2004, 07:02 PM
milky_yumm   QUOTE(yummy_delight @ Oct 21 2004, 6:17 PM):s...   Oct 21 2004, 09:35 PM
milky_yumm   QUOTE(glitter____soup @ Oct 21 2004, 5:44 PM)...   Oct 21 2004, 09:37 PM
krnxswat   Well I'm not going to bother helping you out b...   Oct 21 2004, 10:24 PM
someflipguy   Maybe give him something to talk about...haha...ok...   Oct 22 2004, 10:09 AM
wayne   my gf is the same way... i end up asking her why s...   Oct 22 2004, 10:30 AM
happygoluckyng   QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 21 2004, 10:24 PM)Well I...   Oct 23 2004, 10:43 AM
aznplayaz   QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 21 2004, 7:02 PM)trai...   Oct 23 2004, 10:56 AM
Just_Dream   Try to ask him what he's interested in. And te...   Oct 24 2004, 12:17 AM
Weird addiction   ask him y,wow dat must suck like hell!!   Oct 24 2004, 10:28 AM
Shattered_Hope   hmm, maybe he's afraid of saying the wrong thi...   Oct 27 2004, 09:36 PM
AsianUniQ   maybe the problem is...........he IS boyfreind mat...   Oct 30 2004, 01:11 AM
Perfection   Talk to him about it, it happened to my friend and...   Oct 30 2004, 12:50 PM
nlgrl   my bf is kinda like that... but.. he just doesnt t...   Oct 31 2004, 09:27 AM


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