to date, or not to date? |
 Oct 21 2004, 02:45 PM
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 wanderlust personified.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797  |
Alright. So if you had the choice of being in a serious relationship with someone "safe" OR testing the waters a bit and leading an exciting and more "daring" dating life instead, which would you choose?
I ask because I'm currently in that sort of situation. There is this guy I've been seeing for 2 1/2 years but we recently broke up. Since then, I've been dating around a bit and have actually been having a pretty good time too. The problem is, I don't really share a "deep connection" with any of the other guys I've been dating. It's all just for "fun" and to add a little spice to my love life I guess, but nothing serious. My ex boyfriend on the other hand, is total hubby material and he's recently expressed his desire to get back together and to repair the problems we had before. Now I don't know what to do because one part of me wants to be with him, to love him as I had before. But the other part of me wants to continue this more spontaneous and thrilling lifestyle I've picked up. I mean, I am only 21 years old, should I be settling down already? I really do love him but I'm worried that I'm missing out on something... at the same time, I don't want to lose him either. I hope this isn't all to confusing. I'm sure I'm making it more complicated than it is. |
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Oct 21 2004, 04:28 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
I have two answers, actually...
The thing is, if it were me, I would go for a daring relationship and date just for fun. But after all, I am a lot younger than you, so under no circumstances would I consider a serious relationship. However... Settling down is something that is a personal decision, and the age seems to be different for every woman or man. But if you think that 21 is old enough to settle down, then by all means, get back together with your man. But remember, that there really isn't anything legal connecting the two of you. If you get back together with him and feel the urge to date less seriously, you can always break up. There ARE no rings, after all... =] |
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xquizit to date Oct 21 2004, 02:45 PM
MyVermilionPlague Hmm.
I'd probably go with the more "safe... Oct 21 2004, 02:56 PM Too Asian To DIE frum mai personality.... ill go with the daring li... Oct 21 2004, 03:16 PM smile4me try it out again. he's not asking for marriage... Oct 21 2004, 05:14 PM aznplayaz well as they say "fallow your heart" do ... Oct 21 2004, 06:18 PM Shortiiex just try to date him see if you two still got it. ... Oct 21 2004, 06:20 PM Danny get back together with your lover hehe... aftera... Oct 21 2004, 06:41 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 eh that sucks roxy haha... either way u will feel ... Oct 21 2004, 06:59 PM mai_z well i guess if you don't have one that you re... Oct 21 2004, 08:18 PM xquizit Thanks guys. As of today, me and my ex-bf are back... Oct 22 2004, 10:57 PM krnxswat QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 22 2004, 11:57 PM)Thanks ... Oct 22 2004, 11:46 PM jambaJUICE QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 22 2004, 10:57 PM)Thanks ... Oct 23 2004, 01:33 AM lilxroxy ahahs. Oct 23 2004, 04:55 AM waccoon :O KILL FELIPE. Oct 23 2004, 09:39 AM sammi rules you QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 22 2004, 9:57 PM)Thanks g... Oct 23 2004, 09:57 AM waccoon YOU'D BEST INVITE ME TO THE WEDDING, GIRL.
Hav... Oct 23 2004, 10:10 AM Weird addiction GOOD LUCK GURL Oct 23 2004, 10:21 AM xquizit Haha, thanks guys! Me so happy.
QUOTE(waccoon... Oct 23 2004, 10:51 AM hair products i didn't read any of the other cbers responses... Oct 23 2004, 01:44 PM literemix24 QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 22 2004, 8:57 PM)Thanks g... Oct 24 2004, 11:49 AM
Shattered_Hope aww gald things are working out!!!... Oct 27 2004, 09:12 PM |
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