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what to do.., i think i love him
lilsnickers
post Oct 18 2004, 07:50 PM
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there's this guy that i am absolutely crazy about.
i like him, he likes me...all that. i know he cares a lot about me, and i think i love him.
i can't stop thinking about him, and i want to hold him all the freakin time!!!
he'd like that too...only problem is, my parents don't want me to see him "that way" (or any other guy for that matter) until i'm older. <i'm nearly 17 right now>
right now, he's around a lot, and it's all good...as long as my parents don't see us being anything but just friends.
but we still sneak a few moments and hug and caress and stuff. and a few little kisses. sweet ones biggrin.gif
my mom caught us holding hands a few days ago and told me it had to stop or i couldn't see him at all anymore.

should i risk getting caught and just be really really careful and go on hugging and stuff with him?

<so far my parents don't know that we've done anything but hold hands.>

or do i go with my parents ideas? <which would totally make me miserable>

btw...he just turned 20.
 
 
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Just_Dream
post Oct 19 2004, 10:53 PM
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You know.. my boyfriend doesn't even come over to my house.. He's only been in my house twice.. only becaues he was trying to fix my computer.. But I'd sneak little pats ont he shoulder and pecks on the cheek when my mom elaves the room lol. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.

If he cares enough about you, he'd wait until you and him are allowed to date.. or in your case... when you're allowed to even date anyone at all. But anyway, you should be sneaky about it.. but be too drastic and try to be with him 24/7.. DON'T risk any chance of getting caught... Unless you want to get in trouble.. which is just as bad as obeying your prante's wishes. But I mean.. if he really wanted to be with you and you DID deicde to obey your parents, ask him to wait for you.. and to just be close friends for now.. rather that be actual bf-gf. =) If he does wait, then it's meant to be. There's sort of a big age difference between you and him, so I highly doubt your parents will let you date him...
 

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