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My bf's going on winter vacations, a conflict has arise, comment please
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post Oct 19 2004, 11:18 AM
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well my bf's winter vacation starts from dec 2 to jan 2 (cause he's in university) and as soon as he found out he booked tickets to leave on vac to HK.

which will leave me here without him for about a month (five weekends) which is a long time and ill miss him... i said that thats a long time and stuff basically complaining that i'll be left here w/o him all winter including xmas and new years. he's saying how i still have school and he wont beable to see me anyways... but why does he have to leave so soon? can't even leave a week later? remind you we spend every weekend together we're very attached, i'm basically dependent on him.

thus 2 questions..

1) would you leave on vaca for a month away from your gf/bf for the winter break?

2) should i say something to him more clearly, and state that i want him to leave later instead of so soon?
 
 
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post Oct 19 2004, 01:36 PM
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1. I would leave...

2. Sometimes being to attached is a bad thing. So I say just let it be and just keep in touch with him over that month. Sometimes its better to have sometime off from each other...then when you see each other again your love will be twice as strong than it was before he left. Just see where this thing goes. Have fun with your other friends and rekindle past friendships that might have been neglected because of your relationship.
 

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