I have a problem..., and its about time i ask for help.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Okay guys, your my family so im askin ya for help with a girl.

Little background on me, im 17 (turn 18 in december), i am a senior, and have never had a romantic kiss and i have never ever had a girlfriend, i've been asked out a few times but i didnt because i didnt feel it was right. Now for my problem.

There is this girl i have known for about 4 years. We met sorta in our freshman year but i didnt see her much or pay attention. This really started when we were in 10th grade (sophmore) and she got a boyfriend. Now, i thought she hated me cause of something i said, and she thought i hated her cause of the way she treated me.

this is where things get interesting.

So yeah shes dating this guy and they breka up like..uh..4 times during their sophmore year? but always get back together. So the year ended and summer came and went, i had a crush on her best friend but never said anything till the next year...

Jr year.
So this year is when the majoy things happended. Start of the year i found out that she didnt hate me (i found out she thought i hated her) and vice verse, she was still dating her ex. Anyways they were having relationship troubles and i told her she could come to me with anything that happended if she needed to talk, and she did lol. We would walk together and stuff, iw ould hug her and comfort her *i rember once we were sitting under a tree with me stroking her hair as she cried into my shoulder, *, and thats when i really found i started to like her.

Okay lets backtrack and see if everyone is at the same place. 1.) she and her bf are having a rough relationship with breakups and stuff. 2.) She first thought i hated her, now she comes to me for help. 3.) im begining to like her.

okay good now back on track.

Anyways they broke a few more times and got backtogether, then summer came. Now this girl is very dependant on things, her bf left for the whole summer without telling her in adv that he was leaving, no goodbyes or anything. She took it very very bad and went into depression and stuff. Again i was there for her, my love for her growing stonger, but staying hidden. Anyways her bf would call her some times saying he loved her or "can i kiss this one girl" and stuff *id smack him now lol* and then he came back 2 weeks before school started and things were different. The kisses were diff and everything.

So they broke up for a final time, and he made her feel like s***, which depressed her big time, agin i was their for her. Then school started.

Senior year, which is now.
So now its our senior year together, she has thanked me over and over again for the help, she said she couldnt have done it without me. She has said "i love you" and stuff like that more then once but at first i knew it was in a friendly way. Thing is i really still do truly sincearly love her but i cant bear my hear to tell her cause i mean if she doesnt love me that means i will be rejected which my heart cant take *was rejected 4 times already this summer* and it could ruin our beloved friendship. I do not know what to do anymore, she is a flirty girl and flirts with lots of guys sorta, but her best friend has told me she doesnt like them that way, and she thinks i should just go for it but i dont know i dont know what to do!

so im asking for your help..please..should i tell her..yes..or no..

[Oreo_bro]

k i did the impossible.


i told her


i did it in a note but she gave me back one that was just as long o.O

Anyways, i told her how special she is to me, how much i love her. How i love the way she is, her personality, her hair, her sweet beautiful smile, her beautiful hazel eyes, her lips, how cute she is when she laughs, or sweet she is when she smiles. And she blushed when she gave me her note. Anyways she talked about how much she does care about me *YES* and she told me how special iw as to her, and how without me she wouldnt have been able to even be here right now, and all this stuff. Then she started talkin bout her ex and how she still loves him and stuff. She told me how he did hurt her and shes trying to get over him but its hard, she ended that letter with "from ____". So i gave her another letter saying i understood and that i would always be there for her and how i will wait till she is ready, even if it takes all year. I said osme other lovy dovey stuff and she gave me back another note and said how sweet i was and stuff, and she ended with with "<3_____"


K so this is what i find so far.

She cares about me a lot, im special to her, and she does like me.

She never turned me down, i told her i wanted to go out with her and she acknowlged that.

She still loves her x-bf but shes getting tired of all his BS.




So..does this mean i still have a chance? what should i do