jealousy Options

[LivinInTheShadow...]

my boyfriend and i broke up a while ago. he's going out with other girls now, but i haven't since the break-up. i hate to say it, but i'm getting jealous. i thought i'd be over him by now. i just can't though. does anyone have any ideas to help me get over him?

[lojay]

Wow, I know exactly how you feel. I went out with this guy in 6th grade (I am in 9th grade now) and we had an on and off relationship. Then we just stopped talking altogther for a year and then we started talking again and we started liking each other again.. but then after I told him I liked him again, he admitted he likes me also... but then he didn't IM me anymore, I had to IM him and it made me feel like he didn't like me afterall because he always IMed me first.

So I haven't talked to him since last chistmas. He went out with a girl in my English class, so I heard, and I got REALLY jealous when I heard and I wanted to IM him so bad... but how could IM somone after not talking to them for almost a year?

How I got over him: I haven't. I don't know if I ever will. I heard he and the girl in my English class broke up though, apprently he has a sex buddy Which is such a turn off to me and I really look down upon him for that.. but a part of me still like him.

I guess you should focus on his flaws? That way you can remind yourself about the bad things in him so you won't be so focused on his better qualities? I'm not sure.

Ahhh so long...