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 Oct 13 2004, 11:37 PM
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 Maggot Rocker  Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016  |
Hey everyone as most of you know I'm a daddy...but I have been for awhile but...The thing is...I still have really strong feelings for her mother, but the problem is..She has a big disturst in me cause of a past drug problem...We both had it..and We've both had rehab..and that junk, but the reason I don't get to see my lil girl as much as I like is cause of it all...and I really wanna be apart of her life....cause their is a new guy in her life and I don't want him to take the role as the father....cause you guys know I want my lil girl...she is really all I got...and She is the reason I go on day by day.
but what I need help with is....if their is any that can help...How do I make sure that I'm her only father and that this other guy doesn't take my spot in her life...I really don't want to lose her cause If I did I probly go right back into my old habits and I really don't want to hit that low agian. well thanks for your time for anyone that read this. |
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Oct 14 2004, 02:22 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 13 2004, 10:28 PM) Explain to her that it wouldn't be fair to your daughter if she didn't have her real father in her life. My real dad was out of my life for a long time, mostly because my mom wanted him to stay away from me. I grew up with certain questions in my head like...Am I not good enough that he wouldn't come visit? Is he that bad of a person? I ended up resenting someone I didn't even know. And yes, I have a step-father, so that situation you described above is quite familiar. Trust me, for the good of your daughter, the fact that your role as a father being important should be mutually acknowledged, between you and your daughters mother. yea joemar's reply should help.... Honestly i dont think u should listen to most of the people who reply in this thread because well..they arent even legal to vote let alone give advice on parenting.... I suggest u talk to the mother,convince her why u should be a part of your daughters life, and if she is so stubborn that she doesnt want to give u a chance, but u absolutely want to be in your daughters life, hire a lawyer and try to get part time custody of ur daughter or something..... [ just a suggestion ] im not a father and i dont have a kid and never been in this situation b4...so yea my suggestion is almost worthless basically. |
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JasonAkAWolf I need help. Oct 13 2004, 11:37 PM
x_angawhomps Maybe you can talk to her mother? Like tell her yo... Oct 13 2004, 11:52 PM addictedtoxangie you should talk to the mother about how you want t... Oct 13 2004, 11:56 PM JasonAkAWolf QUOTE(addictedtoxangie @ Oct 13 2004, 11:56 P... Oct 14 2004, 12:26 AM MasteRxKiD Explain to her that it wouldn't be fair to you... Oct 14 2004, 01:28 AM JasonAkAWolf QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 14 2004, 1:28 AM)Expla... Oct 14 2004, 01:58 AM MasteRxKiD Sure thing man.
I'd be more than glad to help ... Oct 14 2004, 02:21 AM JasonAkAWolf QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 14 2004, 2:22 AM)yea ... Oct 14 2004, 11:33 AM MasteRxKiD QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 13 2004, 11:21 PM)Sure... Oct 14 2004, 01:43 PM Nicolatofu Hey well i see you already got a lot of good advic... Oct 14 2004, 01:48 PM JasonAkAWolf QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 14 2004, 1:43 PM)Anyti... Oct 14 2004, 03:14 PM Too Asian To DIE we r all here for u to save ur back Oct 14 2004, 04:04 PM MasteRxKiD QUOTE(JasonAkAWolf @ Oct 14 2004, 12:14 PM)we... Oct 14 2004, 04:35 PM JasonAkAWolf yeah...thats true but I still have other issues I ... Oct 14 2004, 04:44 PM MasteRxKiD As long as you're able to overcome them, be st... Oct 14 2004, 04:47 PM JasonAkAWolf yeah I know but in the courts eyes its something a... Oct 14 2004, 04:49 PM
Cake. Lay down the law.
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