I need help., For all who can help pls reply. |
I need help., For all who can help pls reply. |
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![]() Maggot Rocker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 ![]() |
Hey everyone as most of you know I'm a daddy...but I have been for awhile but...The thing is...I still have really strong feelings for her mother, but the problem is..She has a big disturst in me cause of a past drug problem...We both had it..and We've both had rehab..and that junk, but the reason I don't get to see my lil girl as much as I like is cause of it all...and I really wanna be apart of her life....cause their is a new guy in her life and I don't want him to take the role as the father....cause you guys know I want my lil girl...she is really all I got...and She is the reason I go on day by day.
but what I need help with is....if their is any that can help...How do I make sure that I'm her only father and that this other guy doesn't take my spot in her life...I really don't want to lose her cause If I did I probly go right back into my old habits and I really don't want to hit that low agian. well thanks for your time for anyone that read this. |
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![]() Maggot Rocker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 ![]() |
QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 14 2004, 1:28 AM) Explain to her that it wouldn't be fair to your daughter if she didn't have her real father in her life. My real dad was out of my life for a long time, mostly because my mom wanted him to stay away from me. I grew up with certain questions in my head like...Am I not good enough that he wouldn't come visit? Is he that bad of a person? I ended up resenting someone I didn't even know. And yes, I have a step-father, so that situation you described above is quite familiar. Trust me, for the good of your daughter, the fact that your role as a father being important should be mutually acknowledged, between you and your daughters mother. yaya! your the type of person I wanted to talk to cuase you understand it.....if we can chat more I would really like that...I don't know much about the not having a dad in my life cause I had my dad even tho my parents were seapered....but if we can talk on AIM or PM me on here...I would really be greatful if I can ask you a few questions. |
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