i have no friends.., imstilanubstotellmeifthisisinwrongforum Options

[jambaJUICE]

its true, i have no friends...

let me tell you something about my school life.. its long, dont read if u dont want to, im just yeah..

okay, my school consists of grades k - 8 one teacher per class. but as u reach "junior high 6-8" you "switch classes".. which is bascially switching among 3 teachers. and i`ve been at this school since K, and so has the majority of my classmates.

and they all put me down, and used to make fun of me, still do, i just laugh at it, but u noe it hurts still, and now over the years its built up.

and before they used to come to me for advice, and then suddenly they don`t anymore. and if they do, i dont give it to them, i just say, figure it out urself, or tough.

and now they blame everything on me, get mad at me for no apparent reason.

so im just a silent b_tch now. i used to be loud, and i used to laugh a lot.. now i just dont..

and all my "gal pals" still talk to me, and act all nice, and always say sorrie, and balh blah blah but on the down low.. they rag on me, and talk smack about me. and since im NOT athletic, im pretty weak, and im SLOW. so they beat me up from time to time. and they always brag on my arse. and if i get better grades, they go shut up foo, f_cking nerd, or thats BS.. when i didnt even say anything.

and i still go out to places with them, and party.. but its not the same since we`re older now, and u`d think they`d have stopped doing that sh_t. but.. w/e

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[xquizit]

Believe it or not, I've been through that myself. That's why I haven't had any real female friends in years. All and I mean ALL my friends are male, and it's just better that way cuz they won't rag on you, and there is no such thing as competition with them as there is with girls. Girls can be rude, stuck up, shady, and just plain backstabbing bitches, to put it bluntly.

My suggestion to you. Ditch them. They're not true friends and there is no point in being friends with people who don't give you the respect you deserve.

I don't know how much of a social person you are, but you could start joining various clubs that interest you and make new friends that way. You know... out with the old, in with the new.

If you're not that social, then perhaps get into something that'll keep you busy and take your mind off these "friends". Try some dancing lessons, or learn to play an instrument, or something like that. I bet even without trying, you'll meet people that way.

Well, good luck to you girl. Remember, always respect yourself above anything else and demand the same respect from everyone else.