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 Oct 11 2004, 11:38 PM
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Okay I think this is where its supposed to be...either here or relationships. Mods, you can move it there if you think it should be there instead...
Anyways, I was just thinking about this because I know that I personally do it sometimes myself. I'm just putting my opinion so please don't be offended and get all pissy about it or something... Is it just me (or at least in my experience), or do girls (guys as well, but I'm going to focus on girls right now) tend to read into what guys (girls) say/do way too much? Say for instance, a guy says "I don't know."/"Whatever."/etc. a girl can think "Oh my god, is he mad at me?""Does he hate me?""What did I do?!" etc. etc... Or if a guy OR girl buys a present of some sort and its not quite what one expected...thoughts can follow such as "Are they trying to tell me something?""Did they think I want this because I am _____??" etc...Yes my examples kind of suck but anyways. My point is that, sometimes simple actions/words don't have any specific deeper meaning. Sometimes its exactly what is said/done, like my other example, maybe all he can say is "Whatever." or maybe they did buy that present because they thought one would like it but for no particular bad reason. Seriously. People don't plan things out that much. Well, most. Its no need to get paranoid and so on. Okay that's the end of my rant. Mainly done to tell myself this and to just share my newly gained knowledge with the rest of you. Enjoy. 
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Oct 12 2004, 12:51 AM
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haha steph i know what ur talking about, i hate it when people bug me and ask me whats wrong just cuz i dont feel like going into detail about my boring life.
But i to, do the same thing.... like if a girl isnt being very chatty with me and she usually is, i feel....i KNOW something is up. whether its me or something else... i just want to help so i mite be a little pushy...but in the end it makes both people feel better ><; But i know when to stop... And yea ... it is annoying ><; lol ... if people really wanted u to know...they will tell u. |
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stephinika reading into things Oct 11 2004, 11:38 PM
xox Qt LuVZ xox Yeah, I tend to do that way to often. Like if a f... Oct 11 2004, 11:41 PM dani41790 yea i notice that some people do that. i dont cuz ... Oct 12 2004, 12:29 AM LittleLulu lol yea i guesse alot of ppl do that.. but is jus ... Oct 12 2004, 01:27 AM jennifish ahaha. seems quite true. i really dislike people w... Oct 12 2004, 01:32 AM strwbrrykiwi23 wouldn't it depend on your level of paranoia? Oct 12 2004, 07:29 AM mai_z haha sometimes ...actually almost all of the time.... Oct 12 2004, 03:43 PM kalyps0 I do but I tell myself to stop and then I forget a... Oct 12 2004, 03:47 PM br0ken smile I used to do that all the time. I would read int... Oct 12 2004, 04:12 PM pink_tootsie yea i deffinitely do that! lol Oct 12 2004, 07:02 PM silver rain yeah, i do that all the time. eh, its probably bec... Oct 12 2004, 08:56 PM Redhdchic oh ya i used to do that alllll the time.....but th... Oct 12 2004, 09:21 PM christiee_nax lol. used to be like that before. i would get so p... Oct 12 2004, 10:01 PM madRooney well these are just words of mouth
my view is.. do... Nov 11 2004, 12:59 PM
s0pnayish I believe it's true. I tend to that a lot with... Nov 13 2004, 02:45 AM |
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