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[MeanBastard]

Do nice guys really finish last? YES. There are certain forces that a guy must observe such as a girl’s Friend Zone. If a girl sees nothing more but a friendship that guy belongs in her Friend Zone. Many guys become trapped in the Zone before they realize it. What makes this zone so dangerous? The potential to leave the Friend Zone is almost nil for most guys. Unlike guys, girls have the ability to distinguish their friends of the opposite sex from guys that they want to receive affection from. A good rule of thumb to remember is that once you are in the Friend Zone you will never be in the Potential Relationship Zone no matter what you do, 99.9% of a guy’s attempt to promote themselves will be futile. Unless you are one of the privileged few that that belong in the Potential Relationship Zone girls will typically never look at you as anything more then just a friend. Although nice guys will eventually find someone, normally they are one of the last ones to finish. Many girls bypass nice guys during the first ten years or so because they rather have someone who was less traditional. What attracts girls to non-nice guys is sometimes their uniqueness. Unique guys stand out more and thus receive more attention from people around them, it is a simple fact. There are a lot of nice guys out there but very few of them have the necessary elements to have girls find their personality attractive. There are many disadvantages for a nice guy in terms of relationship seeking. However, many of those qualities will also attract many friends which is sometimes more important then finding that “one” girl immediately.

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th5418 u never seem to stop amusing me.

I agree with you on some points and disagree on some points. Yes its true that being in the friend zone is dangerous. And likely the average guy will get stuck in it and never get out.

I know what u guys think when u get urselfs into this situation... "Heh ill be her friend and get real close , and then ill ask her out" Well guys, pulling out the Friends Card is a good idea, but usually always back fires, due to what th5418 said.

But there are a few tricks u can do to get your ass out of that state . Which i am no gonna say because frankly, i dont want to spoil u guys ;] . Ok Maybe just one.......Pulling the Hard To get card... Your thinking ... Wait isnt that only for someone to use if the other person likes them? Yes. this is true. But u can use it to divert their attention to whatever to you because they start to notice u start actin odd and are gonna care about u enough to give u more attention, but u pull away making them want to help u more. And they will realize they miss ur company, and w/e u 2 shared...so they want u. Get it? uGhZ its hard to explain, and the time to ask the girl or guy ... is really hard to tell, thats why u shouldnt really use this cuz the girl just mite just give up on u if ur timing is off...

Anyways The main idea of this topic is to warn guys about being in the friends zone. So heres my tip of the day.

If you really like a girl , and u want to date her. Dont act like u want to be all buddy buddy with her, cuz ur being fake, if she catches on you will never get a chance. a good idea is flirt with her often, but still be serious and friendly at others so u dont seem to forward. Playing the friends and Hard to get card is almost as dangerous as being in the friends zone ~_~ so if ur a newb dont try! haha...newb.