The Truth Options

[MeanBastard]

Do nice guys really finish last? YES. There are certain forces that a guy must observe such as a girl’s Friend Zone. If a girl sees nothing more but a friendship that guy belongs in her Friend Zone. Many guys become trapped in the Zone before they realize it. What makes this zone so dangerous? The potential to leave the Friend Zone is almost nil for most guys. Unlike guys, girls have the ability to distinguish their friends of the opposite sex from guys that they want to receive affection from. A good rule of thumb to remember is that once you are in the Friend Zone you will never be in the Potential Relationship Zone no matter what you do, 99.9% of a guy’s attempt to promote themselves will be futile. Unless you are one of the privileged few that that belong in the Potential Relationship Zone girls will typically never look at you as anything more then just a friend. Although nice guys will eventually find someone, normally they are one of the last ones to finish. Many girls bypass nice guys during the first ten years or so because they rather have someone who was less traditional. What attracts girls to non-nice guys is sometimes their uniqueness. Unique guys stand out more and thus receive more attention from people around them, it is a simple fact. There are a lot of nice guys out there but very few of them have the necessary elements to have girls find their personality attractive. There are many disadvantages for a nice guy in terms of relationship seeking. However, many of those qualities will also attract many friends which is sometimes more important then finding that “one” girl immediately.

[Oreo_bro]

I know people who are classified as 'bad guys' who stay alive past 30...

And about the girls that have been heartbroken... That just shows you that nice guys do finish last as the girls end up with them AFTER going out with a bunch of bad guys... So there you go... Point is proven...

ah i said nice guys dont always finish last..i never said they always finished first.

What is better, to take your time and find the girl for you that will stay with u and be there for u and later become your wife? or some girl thats gonna dump u the next day, or is a one night stand, or you treat like shiet/she treats u like shiet, or u guys end up breaking up after a few weeks.

You see..just because a guy takes his time, or just cause a girl finnally see's the bf potential in a good friend..doesnt mean his finished last. In fact, if there relationship grows and they get married some day, and the "bad guy" just hops from relationship to realtionship, then i would say the bad guy finished last.

So again..my point stands, nice guys dont always finish last, from a certain point of view.