The Truth Options

[MeanBastard]

Do nice guys really finish last? YES. There are certain forces that a guy must observe such as a girl’s Friend Zone. If a girl sees nothing more but a friendship that guy belongs in her Friend Zone. Many guys become trapped in the Zone before they realize it. What makes this zone so dangerous? The potential to leave the Friend Zone is almost nil for most guys. Unlike guys, girls have the ability to distinguish their friends of the opposite sex from guys that they want to receive affection from. A good rule of thumb to remember is that once you are in the Friend Zone you will never be in the Potential Relationship Zone no matter what you do, 99.9% of a guy’s attempt to promote themselves will be futile. Unless you are one of the privileged few that that belong in the Potential Relationship Zone girls will typically never look at you as anything more then just a friend. Although nice guys will eventually find someone, normally they are one of the last ones to finish. Many girls bypass nice guys during the first ten years or so because they rather have someone who was less traditional. What attracts girls to non-nice guys is sometimes their uniqueness. Unique guys stand out more and thus receive more attention from people around them, it is a simple fact. There are a lot of nice guys out there but very few of them have the necessary elements to have girls find their personality attractive. There are many disadvantages for a nice guy in terms of relationship seeking. However, many of those qualities will also attract many friends which is sometimes more important then finding that “one” girl immediately.

[Oreo_bro]

i agree and dont agree.

nice guys actually finish first in lots of things, like..staying alive past 30 :P

why do i say that? well first u need to clarify what a "bad boy" is. Is he the guy that likes to mistalk during class? or do drugs and vandalize? To me, a bad boy is the kinda of guy that does drugs and lives on the line. Now..if a guy is into drugs and all that stuff big time..yeah not much chance of them living past..what, 30? either the drugs will kill them or a drug dealer will.

I know lots of girls who, after being heart broken multiple times, will finnally relize what a friend they have in a guy and start to like him more then just a friend, some times without the guy trying. They say that your soulmate (aka wife/husband gf/bf) are your best friends..emphizis on friends