if i dont tell him that i like him, will i regret it? Options

[FUNKosaurus]

im reeeeally into my friends older brother, which is wrong on so many levels. he told me that i looked like molly ringwald [a compliment in my opinion] and taught me a few skate tricks, i catch him looking at me. he laughs at my dumb jokes. i dont know if he likes me or is just being polite. i have 'aquired' his screen name on AIM but he doesnt know that i have it, im scared to tell him that i like him. but if i dont tell him will i regret it?

he's 3 years older than me. im 14 and hes 17 almost 18..

im sorry if i sound like a bloody prat, ANY advice would be helpful. thanks..

[Just_Dream]

Please don't double post.

But anyways, about your problem. I'm sure many other girls have fallen for their friend's brothers before lol. Well, it's best that you do tell him first. Maybe you should tell your friend first, it really depends. Hopefully your friend won't think that you hanged out with him/her just to get to know his/her brother. But it's better to let it out on the open before you get hurt. Who knows? He might secretly like you! But then again, maybe he just sees you as a fun little sister.. the little sister he never had. You'll never know until you ask.

But he is going to be 18 soon, and I mean, sometimes, older guys only like younger girls because they want to get into their pants, if you know what I mean. That's why it's sort of um.. risky. But you should tell him as soon as possible. But also, your friend should know. And hopefully afterwards, you friend's brother won't feel awkward around you and if he says that he doesn't like you, say that you'd still like to be friends with him because he's a very nice persona nd fun to hang out with. Who knows? He might start developing feelings for you.

But it's better to know as soon as possible, so you don't dwell upon this issue forever and like him more and more. Becaues the longe ryou wait, the more you might like him and then the more you'll get hurt if you find out that he doesn't like you.