r u shallow? Options

[xj_liana_tx]

[Just_Dream]

I can be sometimes superficial... But beauty is only skin deep. Even though someone may be hot or sexy or something on the outside, I always have to get to know them to see what they are like, personality-wise and such. I mean, you can't base everything on the surface, you got to get to know them. HYPOTHETICALLY speaking, to the guys, what if the girl was really pretty, but a snot-nose female dog? And to girls, what if the guy was only into his looks and had no brains at all?

Yea I do often care about looks, but then I am not much of a looker, somy standards aren't really that high. And most of all, I almost never go for the hottest guy because, for the people around me that I see in real life, this is how it goes...

1. They mainly care about how they look. Why do you think they looks so great? No, they aren't always born with it. They are often self-conscious

2. MOST LIKELY, because they are hot, they will only date other hot people.

3. They care alot about clothes, so if a girl gorgeous, but dress they way they won't like, they will probably ask that girl out, but will continue to try to change her into something she is not.

4. They are usually accepted by others, thus they wil, continue to try to put up a "front" in order to be liked more. Yes, quite a few of those hot guys put up fronts. They are often fake and don't even what it's like to be what they say they are. Plus, of those fake guys who are liked by others, they think they are so bad-ass that they only want someone equally bad-ass, equally gorgeous, equally popular.

Please, to the guys, do not get mad at me for saying this. I'm just basing this on my experience. And most of all, it's MOST of the hot-looking guys, not all of them. :]