UN-undertanding/paranoid parents., ugh!!! Options

[lilxroxy]

i knw i shudn`t be rude, disrespectful and blah blah blah. so leave right now if you can`t control yourself to not lecture me.

so tmrw is my 15th bday. and i got permission to go downtown with my friends on friday afterschool. mom was ohkay with it and whatever crap.

then today, when i came home, i was doing my hwk [otherwise she gets pissed] and then she comes into my room and asks me my plans and starts to mess with my hair [i`m the kind of person who`s protective of my hair] and i told her to stop. once. twice. and then i got mad i walked away from her and started to read and take notes from my textbook. then she got angry and started to say i was being "disrespectful" and "unappreciative" and she got to the point saying i am not allowed to go nywhere foh my bdayy OR the day after that to downtown.

what on EArtH HAs ThIS WORlD CoMe To?!

[lojay]

Oh man, I hate it when my mom plays with my hair. We will be at like a party or something and I will stand next to her and look at me and like put my hair behind my ear or whatnot and I wanna shout DON'T TOUCH MY HAIR! MINE NOT YOURS! But instead I glare at her adn shake my head so it gets back to normal and is a little bit messy so it gets her annoyed. Yeah... But I guess you could always try the ever populoar suck up routine? Or... why not apologize? Not begging though.. I think that parents find satisfactions in making you beg. Haha...