Is it rong to like your ex again, espshully wen he dumped you Options

[LuZz]

i dunno ... this guy.. let'z say my ex... wen we were going out... i really liked him... i wudn't call it love, coz i think we're too young to call it love... but yeah i liked him alot.. but weret even not going out properly...
we it was like 2 months... and we never went out by ourself, it was always in a group. And i was too shy to talk to him in front of my friends... and i wud avoid him coz wen i saw him i wud blush and my friends wud tease me.

he dumped me coz he was like: nothing'z happening so itz no point having this relationship... and he asked me if i thot if was okay
and i was so shy to say no, incase it was another reason. so we juz broke up like dat.

i started really hating him coz he was being really mean to me and my friends...
and den i dunno now he'z nice again.. and he starts talking to me again.
i think i like him again... but isn't it rong to like sum1 dat dumped u and also.. ur since he'z my last ex.

i dunno what to do and i dun even kno if i was ever fully over him, or i juz started liking him again.

i've considered asking him out or sumthin, but i'm not the type of girl to do dat. sum1 gimme advise?

[babiebubblez03]

i would advise you just to be friends with him first.. it sounds to me that you guys werent even friends in the first place.. that could be why you were so shy. Also, you dont want to go out in groups all the time.. it loses the point of even having a relationship... so try being friends with him and asking him to have some one on one time ya know?! Then, once you are comfortable with him, then maybe you two can talk about being together again?! But also, dont become such good friends that he can use the excuse "oh, i dont wanna ruin the friendship". Just let him become close enough to know that you arent the same shy person you were ya know?! And no, its not wrong to like your ex again.. it's acutally quite common! :o) hehe