A Long Distance Relationship, with the guy you know is true....... Options

[luckyxi3]

i met this guy on xanga and we started to talk.

at first he was just some guy who usually just ims you to tell you about visiting your site.

then later on we became good friends and i think he asked me out in a way. asking me about age difference and distance.

but here`s the problem.. he lives all the way in nevada [las vegas] and i live here in ny. another problem is he`s 19 while i`m 14 and he`s planning to go to the navy in 3 months. i just think that age is a number but IF we ever did think about getting married, i know my parents wouldn`t let me get married that young while he`s like already old and should`ve gotten married. i just don`t wanna hold him back

i totally like him and he`s an amazing person. we totally understand each other and basically know what each other says or feels.

i`ve asked my friend already if i should take this risk. she said no because it will be hard for me because he`s gonna be going to the navy for years.

i wish he would just change his mind about going to the navy and move here to ny.. but i don`t wanna change what he thought about in years and the fact that i`ve only been in his life not that long. that`s only destiny at work if it does really happen.

what would you do or what should i do? let go of the guy i know could be mr. right or just go for it and find out the consequences?

he always told me to think before i do or say anything because it will eventually always end up with consequences. well i`ve thought about it for so long and i don`t know what are my consequences...

[HP and Lm1031]

im in a long distance relationship also. my bf lives in New York i live in Missouri. its hard at times but i always think about the good things. i met my bf for the first time in real life June 11, 2004 and it was the best day of my life. it will b a year for us Oct.31 (yea i know crazy!) but u do need to have AOLT of trust to have a relationship like this. and if he really loves u then he would wait for u if u guys want to get married down the road. but done b scared to follow ur heart! i did and i have never been this happy in my life!! and it really helps if u get to see him and touch him. but never hold back ur feelings tward him. i tryed that and it dosent help any but when i told him how i felt and what i was thinking i found out that he was feeling the same way i was and it has made us love each other more. im only 16 and when i told my bf that i wanted to spend the rest of my life w/ him he started cryin b/c he was wanting the same thing. our familys know that we want to get married and now his mom n dad wants to take me to Italy w/ them next tiem they go so i can meet the rest of the family. i have suffered alot in this expereance also i have lost my best friend b/c she dent like the idea of us dating and my bf and i have also suffered reatialdescrimanation b/c my bf is black/italian and ppl think that we shouldnt b going out b/c im white and hes black but u know what i dont care and he dosent care and the only thing ppl are doing to us is bringing us closer. so dont let ne1 put u down for this its ur life and ur heart so follow it!!
Hannah