Cheating, When third parties arise Options

[psychoticangel]

People get cheated on once in a while.. some are always cheated on.
I was... three times, with the same guy. He cheated on me with a close friend. And other friends. And I was soo blind I accepted him back. Three times. Imagine that. I honestly didn't know what to do until my closest friend yelled at me saying I was so weak and that I had to leave him. But I loved him too much. And I loved my friends too much. So I forgave all of them. It wasn't til mai guy best friend threatened me that he'd go and kill the guy that I broke up with him. It hurt so badly. And honestly, I didn't know wtf to do.. And when I look back at it now... I realize that I still wouldn't know what to do if it all happened again...

So... what are you supposed to do when you get cheated on?

[Melissa]

You're supposed to call him a bastard and move on.

thats a good idea

its kinda personal so i'll be vague... but my aunt was once married to this guy that my grandparents hated n all, but she wouldn't listen to anything they had to say. so 3 years after they got married, they got divorced. i was 6 at the time and didn't understand why, cuz i liked that guy...heck he was even the clown for my 5 year old b-day party. so just a week ago (a lotta years later), i found out that he had cheated on my aunt, stole money from his restaurant, and fooled around with the waitresses at his restaurant. and i even found out that my aunt had given him so many chances. i felt so bad ever complaining abotu them getting a divorce b/c this aunt is my favorite family member and i love her so much, and it really hurts me that she could get hurt so bad like that.

so if i ever found that my boyfriend was cheating on me... there would be NO second chance.