two of my friends hate eachother, this poses itself as a problem.. Options

[im___radx]

ok, i have two good friends. i like 'Kim' loads better then 'Tara' but i still hang out with 'Tara'. so im planning a little shin dig at this roller skating rink and all of my friends are their friends. i would rather just invite 'Kim' but since 'Tara' is friends with my friends word is bound to get around that she is not invited. I cant invite the both of them either, because they simply hate eachother. any advice? suggestions? maybe i just shouldnt invite either one of them... im sorry if this topic makes me seem like a silly little girl

[easilyxamusedx]

i had a very similar thing happen to me!..were the girls friends before?..bc mine were, and then they got into a fight where they literally hated each other, and i wanted to invite them both to a friends surprise birthday..but i was worried they'd go at it! lol but..anyways.
what i did wasi told them if they were going to go, to just ignore the other girl and just have a good time and hang out w/ other people. if they can both do that it will work out fine..or they could talk it out before the party.. that'd be great!
but it's your party, they are going to see you, that's what matters. if they don't want to go bc of another girl, just let her sit at home, bc it's not your problem..
well, i wish you the best of luck!