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I have a problem, im a mom
Rei
post Mar 17 2004, 07:24 PM
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Daym im only 15 and i have a 3 month old daughter my husband divorced me. i dont know what to do and i know this isnt the place to talk about it but i cant find any other place i need advice. i really do.
 
 
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post Mar 18 2004, 11:26 AM
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wow .. so very young to have been married and have a child. =/ .. there isn't much that any of us can do to help .. is your family helping to support the baby now that your husband has divorced you? you have to be a bit more specific with the situation here. a baby is a huge financial burden so unfortunately, as the mother, you have to make a lot of sacrifices -- further education, job, etc. unless you have someone help to watch the baby for you. try to be strong and do what you have to do to get by. that's really all i can tell you. it's going to be hard. hopefully the father will be responsible enough to take a part in the babies life and do everything he possibly can as well. i'm sorry to hear that you're going through this at such a young age. best of luck :(
 

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Rei   I have a problem   Mar 17 2004, 07:24 PM
adoggydog195   well, you are in the wrong place, but maybe i can ...   Mar 17 2004, 07:38 PM
Just_Dream   could someone in the xanga staff or the admins may...   Mar 18 2004, 12:24 AM
krnxswat   moved to girl's locker. Just_Dream: Thanks ^...   Mar 18 2004, 12:36 AM
NatiMarie   I'm sorry to hear that. Can you obtain help fr...   Mar 18 2004, 12:52 AM
xjjajeengx   wait... is this true? because i mean, its kind of ...   Mar 18 2004, 01:03 AM
naughtyneshe   how do u get married at 15???   Mar 18 2004, 10:33 AM
iloveyou07   people can u try giving her helpful advice!...   Mar 18 2004, 10:46 AM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   wow .. so very young to have been married and have...   Mar 18 2004, 11:26 AM
iheartsimba   well...raising a child at 15 could be difficult......   Mar 18 2004, 04:53 PM
xEoreMehttax   yeah. ..i left something on ur xanga...yeah...neve...   Mar 18 2004, 05:31 PM
xEoreMehttax   hmmm...how come ur xanga is linked to another one....   Mar 18 2004, 05:38 PM
F_L_I_P   Are u For real?!?! How do u get married in...   Mar 18 2004, 05:44 PM
F_L_I_P   wut yall talking about? linked to another site? . ...   Mar 18 2004, 06:07 PM
Rei   im not lying i really am married and divorced and ...   Mar 22 2004, 07:00 PM
IIO__oII   im sorri =[   Mar 22 2004, 09:59 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   yall... you can get married at any age under 18 a...   Mar 22 2004, 10:44 PM
waccoon   Under 18: If either the bride or groom is under 18...   Mar 22 2004, 11:11 PM
thedilenquent   QUOTE(naughtyneshe @ Mar 18 2004, 10:33 AM)ho...   Mar 22 2004, 11:14 PM
waccoon   In most states you must be 18 to marry without par...   Mar 22 2004, 11:16 PM
thedilenquent   ok, im gonna try and put myself in your shoes beca...   Mar 22 2004, 11:20 PM
Just_Dream   Aww, well maybe you should've gotten an aborti...   Mar 22 2004, 11:59 PM
Dr3aMeR   um ok..its sad and all but why did you post that.....   Mar 23 2004, 12:05 AM
thedilenquent   QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 22 2004, 11:59 PM)Aww,...   Mar 23 2004, 12:51 PM
waccoon   why doesnt rei answer at all? she was the one aski...   Mar 23 2004, 03:27 PM
cmgchica717   QUOTE(waccoon @ Mar 23 2004, 3:27 PM)why does...   Feb 4 2005, 04:37 PM
Podomaht   >__< lets hope its not a joke.   Mar 23 2004, 03:51 PM
xEoreMehttax   heh...i dunno about that...did u see her xanga??it...   Mar 23 2004, 05:19 PM
Rei   im sorry but i dont have time and my friend made t...   Mar 24 2004, 06:05 PM
2ruPnoy   Daym Yall. Leave the girl alone. She has a baby...   Mar 24 2004, 06:28 PM
Mireh   QUOTE(2ruPnoy @ Mar 24 2004, 6:28 PM)Daym Yal...   Mar 24 2004, 06:58 PM
iheartsimba   QUOTE(thedilenquent @ Mar 23 2004, 12:51 PM)....   Mar 24 2004, 07:52 PM
F_L_I_P   QUOTEDaym Yall. Leave the girl alone. She has a ba...   Mar 24 2004, 09:07 PM
Podomaht   sorry, i didnt know. ill pray for you.   Mar 24 2004, 09:09 PM
CEP   Well, like a lot of people here say, put the kid u...   Mar 24 2004, 09:26 PM
silver   I don't really recommend adoption, just for th...   Mar 24 2004, 09:42 PM
CJ1   I think you should ask for real help cause most of...   Mar 27 2004, 11:13 AM
ichiban   Best I can say is, Put your child up for adoption,...   Mar 27 2004, 03:40 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(thedilenquent @ Mar 23 2004, 12:51 PM)....   Mar 27 2004, 04:49 PM
jooleeah   adoption seems good. but then again if you bonded ...   Mar 27 2004, 09:19 PM
angel_girl   wow ur onli 15 n having a babii u should get a nic...   Mar 30 2004, 08:26 PM
dani41790   O_o   Mar 30 2004, 10:23 PM
perdyperdybirdy   adopton would be the best thing to do.   Apr 3 2004, 05:22 PM
scissor_kiss   i just want to let every know that i think you guy...   Apr 3 2004, 05:52 PM
177emories   you got married and divorced already? are you sure...   Apr 3 2004, 08:06 PM
177emories   QUOTE(angel_girl @ Mar 30 2004, 8:26 PM)wow u...   Apr 3 2004, 08:08 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(177emories @ Apr 3 2004, 8:06 PM)you go...   Apr 3 2004, 09:55 PM
F_L_I_P   she quitted now even her xanga.   Apr 23 2004, 10:49 PM
F0r3v3r   QUOTE(waccoon @ Mar 23 2004, 3:27 PM)why does...   Apr 24 2004, 02:29 PM
naughtyneshe   Posted on Apr 24 2004, 3:29 PM QUOTE (waccoon @...   Apr 24 2004, 04:25 PM
rOckThISshYt   oh my god. i feel so bad for you. you are so young...   May 21 2004, 12:46 AM
shawty_redd   she left! oh no i didnt get to say what i want...   May 21 2004, 08:00 AM
Blueiyzboy   personally, I thinks a large number of guys walk o...   May 21 2004, 09:29 AM
grrfield   o how sad though!!   May 21 2004, 05:43 PM
kirbymuixo   I think it's best to put the baby up for adopt...   May 21 2004, 05:58 PM
DixieDaCutie   shouldve used condomz... ^_^   May 21 2004, 05:58 PM
waccoon   this isn't real. people, stop commenting.   May 21 2004, 06:13 PM
F_L_I_P   QUOTE(waccoon @ May 21 2004, 6:13 PM)this isn...   May 31 2004, 01:49 PM
islandkiss   you could always give your baby up for adoption......   May 31 2004, 07:53 PM
swtpumkinpie   QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 23 2004, 12:59 AM)Aww,...   May 31 2004, 08:10 PM
miss_blasian   uhh...is this real?? well anyway..i am sorry you a...   May 31 2004, 11:54 PM
LatinaLady   this could be true and all but i wont belive it at...   Jun 1 2004, 12:23 AM
ji_cabinx   i'm 15...and i don't think i'll have t...   Jun 30 2004, 07:38 PM
princess2113   ask parents to help, pray, and he or his family, d...   Jul 7 2004, 08:38 PM
uT oH iiTs sTePh   woaaaahhhhh amazing i didnt know none of that   Jul 7 2004, 08:48 PM
emrzz09   uhh..sorry, but you cant get married when you...   Jul 7 2004, 08:51 PM
babygurl_xtacy   how can your be married when your 15.....? like le...   Jul 7 2004, 09:42 PM
americasidol   i was adopted, my birth mom had me when she was 16...   Jul 8 2004, 10:53 AM
x hYpErRoSeY x   im sorry for what happened :( but r you in school?...   Jul 8 2004, 11:48 AM
AznPryde324   i was looking around the old threads in the girls ...   Aug 16 2004, 05:21 PM
pink_tootsie   im sry... idk how to help but maybe u can go to ur...   Aug 16 2004, 05:24 PM
F_L_I_P   QUOTE(AznPryde324 @ Aug 16 2004, 5:21 PM)i wa...   Aug 16 2004, 06:17 PM
lilteardrop   eeks. bad situtation! idunno how to help. sorr...   Aug 16 2004, 07:02 PM
PingPong   ur in the wrong situation in the wrong time.. neve...   Aug 16 2004, 08:26 PM
babyytookrazie   QUOTEthis isn't real. people, stop commenting....   Aug 16 2004, 08:41 PM
sheepy   i think u should like go tell someone about it. if...   Aug 16 2004, 08:54 PM
swtpumkinpie   i would say you go straight down to welfare and th...   Aug 16 2004, 08:58 PM
lyin_in_wait   i think that you chose to have unprotected sex and...   Aug 20 2004, 04:03 AM
XHiddenbeautyX   having a child at 15 is hard, cuz if u still have ...   Aug 20 2004, 09:09 AM
highdive95   first off how old were you when you got married?...   Aug 20 2004, 09:18 AM
tallaznkate   FiRST OFF, i`M SORRY ABOUT YOUR SiTUATiON. SEC...   Aug 20 2004, 07:17 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Wow. This is OLD. Jeez. Sounds fake to me..   Aug 20 2004, 07:30 PM
ciara nicole   wow. sweetie if you want to help this baby have a ...   Aug 24 2004, 12:18 AM
FreeStickers   ...you can get married at 15?   Feb 4 2005, 04:14 PM
Funky Buddha   QUOTE(FreeStickers @ Feb 4 2005, 4:14 PM)...y...   Feb 4 2005, 09:39 PM
Fallen_Fairy   That's sad. I'm hoping that at least you h...   Feb 4 2005, 04:38 PM
mouse_3k   go to ur parents or a shelter? or get a job and su...   Feb 4 2005, 05:10 PM
sweetONyou080   why is this oOOooOLD topic back? o.O' hmm....p...   Feb 4 2005, 05:28 PM
xSonia   isnt it illegal to be married before 18 ?   Feb 4 2005, 07:12 PM
DixieDaCutie   good luck w/ tht-- seems kinda out there to me, bu...   Feb 4 2005, 07:27 PM
pullthecord_x   how did you marry someone at the age of 15? parent...   Feb 4 2005, 09:21 PM
iki2aZei   ..had sex.... 15.. mom.. 3 months-old daughter.. m...   Feb 4 2005, 09:35 PM


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