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sailornaruru
post Aug 13 2004, 02:31 AM
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HHm....my friend started cutting herself and im woried ermm.gif
She says that she does it to relieve her paine and suffereing, but i dunno, I've tried cutting myself before, and it hurt, so i stopped and to me, it doesn't relieve pain [IT HURTS]

I want herto stop, but she said that shewants to keep doing it because it makes her feel batter


Should i back off and let her do it? [im sorta backing off right now] but i still want her to stop

I think its bad to cut..what do ya'll think? And Do you guys think i should back off and let her do it? cry.gif
 
 
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hollaITSJOJO
post Sep 9 2004, 09:18 PM
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i just took a college course in psychology and I paid close attention to the part when we talked about cutting. I used to cut liek once or twice. Each person has a different reason of cutting. The cutting can be generalized into Major Depression. The only thing you can do for your friend is to tell her and show her another way to express her/his feelings. Make that person feel special and beautiful. Pay attention to the way they react and the way the interact with others. you wanna try to stop this early cause cutting is like any drug. Addicting. Hope I helped you! tongue.gif
 

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sailornaruru   cutting yourself...   Aug 13 2004, 02:31 AM
DrEaMgUy2K1   u cant really tell her to stop, u gotta tell her h...   Aug 13 2004, 02:33 AM
c0nfus3dmisfit   sometimes when i used to feel really mad or really...   Aug 13 2004, 02:59 AM
MyVermilionPlague   You can't force her to stop. She might just w...   Aug 13 2004, 03:06 AM
ryfitaDF   cutting yourself to relieve pain is like going to ...   Aug 13 2004, 03:26 AM
dani41790   yea i think its wrong but i kinda dont noe...   Aug 13 2004, 03:27 AM
strwbrrykiwi23   my friend used to cut herself as well, and i asked...   Aug 13 2004, 07:56 AM
mouse_3k   no its not ok. it could kill u so of course its no...   Aug 13 2004, 12:50 PM
sweetx305   cutting is a way to redirect the pain your feeling...   Aug 13 2004, 12:50 PM
Devastation   wow. seek help.   Aug 13 2004, 12:52 PM
WildGriffin   I hate how people try to seperate "emotional...   Aug 13 2004, 01:03 PM
ryfitaDF   shyte, son. "sum of pain"! theres a ...   Aug 13 2004, 01:33 PM
xsweetdreams12x   Tell her parents. This is serious, and she could e...   Aug 13 2004, 01:49 PM
XxBeExOHxX   tell her ull help her by slapping her, and wen she...   Aug 13 2004, 03:06 PM
boobooxpp   well, people say that it "relieves pain...   Aug 13 2004, 04:13 PM
anger_is_my_friend   first talk to her as a friend, not a parent. tell ...   Aug 13 2004, 04:14 PM
x0143637x0   friends dont let friends hurt themselves. if your ...   Aug 13 2004, 04:16 PM
talentedbabe04   yea. what they all said lol.. just talk to her abo...   Aug 13 2004, 04:19 PM
Behbi_Simplicity   I used to cut myself. Just to let you know, friend...   Aug 13 2004, 06:15 PM
Yemmerz   Emotional pain and physical pain is the same ish. ...   Aug 13 2004, 06:18 PM
iheartsimba   i will not reply i will not reply i will not reply...   Aug 13 2004, 06:23 PM
Yemmerz   QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Aug 13 2004, 7:23 PM)i wi...   Aug 13 2004, 06:29 PM
liddoxaznxkevin   cuttings awesome   Aug 14 2004, 12:31 AM
sporadic   Cutting yourself is a no-no   Aug 14 2004, 06:50 AM
sweetdreamsx3   Sometimes you really have to let go of the pain..M...   Aug 14 2004, 02:16 PM
italianpride1830   you cant force her to stop but id really express m...   Aug 14 2004, 04:22 PM
cutielilsuga   i think no one should be cutting themselves no mat...   Aug 14 2004, 10:00 PM
hybrid   Remember; Friends don't let other friends get ...   Aug 14 2004, 10:26 PM
sailornaruru   thnx you guys i will tlak to her more and i...   Aug 15 2004, 01:17 AM
Angel_Cece   its NOT Ok and u shud talk 2 her if she wont liste...   Aug 15 2004, 01:18 AM
sheepy   its wrong its wrong. if u want to let go of pain, ...   Aug 15 2004, 03:55 PM
Levy2k6   i think cutting yourself is wrong. and ppl should ...   Aug 15 2004, 05:13 PM
nyCzxfOx   i've stopped =x because if you think outside...   Aug 16 2004, 09:22 AM
is2diexd   Yea i think you should back off.. because the more...   Aug 18 2004, 08:04 AM
sheddingtears   Yeah, my friend cuts herself, and she says it...   Aug 25 2004, 05:04 AM
Devastation   its wrong   Aug 25 2004, 05:28 AM
AUTHENTIC x ME   I use to cut and i use to say the same thing. But ...   Aug 25 2004, 11:20 PM
xx__bebe   it's not a really good way to relieve the pain...   Aug 26 2004, 02:13 PM
XxaznskoolgurlxX   there are a lot of pplz that cut themselvez..they ...   Aug 26 2004, 02:34 PM
XoChristiangirl25o   [FONT=Arial][SIZE=7][COLOR=blue] as her friend yo...   Aug 27 2004, 09:14 AM
evdxgirl   When ppl cut themselves, their brain releases a ki...   Aug 27 2004, 09:37 AM
prettixinpunk   um yeah...dont force her.. i cutt myself.. i hat...   Aug 27 2004, 07:23 PM
XxBeExOHxX   help her out by cutting her wen shes cutting herse...   Aug 27 2004, 08:26 PM
nevermind   I did it before...NOT COOL! I found other ways...   Aug 27 2004, 08:33 PM
blowpops69   i cut myself once. i was really depressed in 5th g...   Aug 27 2004, 10:54 PM
DavidxN   cutting is for ppl that need attention, usually th...   Aug 28 2004, 01:40 AM
braggtastic   People who cut themselves obviously don't care...   Aug 28 2004, 02:54 AM
Frankie   QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 13 2004, 2:33 AM)u ca...   Aug 28 2004, 11:36 AM
Suesterrx   totally wrong.. waaay wrong.. i kno some ppl think...   Aug 28 2004, 09:45 PM
DavidxN   its pain relieving because they're getting att...   Aug 28 2004, 11:32 PM
XxBeExOHxX   KILL THEM AND EAT THEM   Aug 28 2004, 11:51 PM
maliitashun   Cutting is for EMO kids. ...   Aug 29 2004, 01:22 AM
XxBeExOHxX   wats emo. sounds like a messed up brand of clothes   Aug 29 2004, 01:42 PM
braggtastic   emo is short for emotional. hence emo music and a...   Aug 29 2004, 03:37 PM
Melissa_gulick   i use 2 do it,, its not good.. i got so into it th...   Sep 3 2004, 09:30 AM
baby72987   i used ta cut muh self and it wasnt a good picture...   Sep 3 2004, 10:35 AM
mouse_3k   QUOTEI've tried cutting myself before, and it ...   Sep 3 2004, 12:24 PM
F1R3B4T   cutting = ppl who seek attention of friends, fam, ...   Sep 3 2004, 02:54 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   Cutting is VERY wrong. you can`t actually tell...   Sep 3 2004, 03:41 PM
Angelos   yeah...... cutting is really bad   Sep 3 2004, 03:43 PM
fallenang3l211   i used to cut myself, and when i look back at it, ...   Sep 3 2004, 05:47 PM
helllla jankyyyy   You need to talk to her. Or tell someone. I almost...   Sep 3 2004, 05:58 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Everyone has their own way of relieving themselves...   Sep 3 2004, 06:23 PM
mz_m1ch3113   i think its wrong to cut urself coverin up pain w...   Sep 3 2004, 06:47 PM
audory   yeah.. i think cuttin is really bad. personally......   Sep 3 2004, 07:54 PM
dreamerOi   okay truth is ive done it but i remember this one ...   Sep 5 2004, 12:50 AM
ichidou   I have cut before, yesterday as a matter of fact, ...   Sep 6 2004, 04:22 PM
Inverted Binary   I don't get how you get attention from cutting...   Sep 6 2004, 08:13 PM
cthroughangel   seriously. cutting yourself is just as lame as get...   Sep 6 2004, 08:16 PM
Rachel is love   weird place to put the topic.... maybe better in...   Sep 6 2004, 11:16 PM
aznsorpor   it is completely wrong to cut yourself.. she shoul...   Sep 7 2004, 04:18 PM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(aznsorpor @ Sep 7 2004, 2:18 PM)it is c...   Sep 7 2004, 11:18 PM
JasonAkAWolf   QUOTE(sailornaruru @ Aug 13 2004, 2:31 AM)HHm...   Sep 9 2004, 04:03 PM
hollaITSJOJO   i just took a college course in psychology and I p...   Sep 9 2004, 09:18 PM
tsohg   Cutting yourself is just being selfish You have to...   Sep 9 2004, 09:59 PM
th5418   Tell her down the road, not across the street.   Sep 9 2004, 10:00 PM
lilxroxy   QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 13 2004, 2:33 AM)u ca...   Sep 10 2004, 10:09 AM
highly_evolved   *sigh* yes help your friend talk to her. ok im k...   Sep 11 2004, 06:40 PM
Yemmerz   Yeah you should. I found out that my friend cut he...   Sep 11 2004, 06:45 PM
highly_evolved   its solving the emotional pain for a few minutes w...   Sep 11 2004, 08:30 PM
babygrl23   QUOTE(highly_evolved @ Sep 11 2004, 6:40 PM)*...   Sep 12 2004, 09:52 PM
highly_evolved   ^ thank you   Sep 13 2004, 05:53 AM
whtevergoaway   ..i cut....well im trying to stop, because my frie...   Sep 14 2004, 08:28 PM
DesperateXMeasures   QUOTE(highly_evolved @ Sep 11 2004, 4:40 PM)*...   Sep 14 2004, 08:31 PM
whtevergoaway   ..if they cut and show it off...it just means they...   Sep 14 2004, 08:51 PM
xo b0o b0o   Well what can I say? It's wrong It's terri...   Sep 18 2004, 03:56 PM
persongp   stop her   Sep 18 2004, 06:23 PM
royalfreshness   i dont know anyone personally that cuts themselves...   Sep 18 2004, 07:38 PM
lifeisoverated   QUOTE(sailornaruru @ Aug 13 2004, 2:31 AM)HHm...   Sep 18 2004, 07:45 PM
needlenymph   QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 9 2004, 10:00 PM)Tell her ...   Sep 18 2004, 07:53 PM
kaleidoscoped   Cutting can help her stay in control of herself. I...   Sep 18 2004, 09:46 PM
niez_cho   It's really wrong. If you're depressed or ...   Sep 18 2004, 11:30 PM
smthngcrprategrl34   i was a cutter but stopped about a year ago but i ...   Sep 20 2004, 11:01 PM
Flip-o-Matic   cutting's just plain wrong. it doesn't do...   Sep 20 2004, 11:05 PM
rainnydaiis   my sister use to do it but i don't like her do...   Sep 20 2004, 11:07 PM
gothicvengeance   NO!! NO!!! CUTTING YOURSELF I...   Sep 22 2004, 06:42 PM
tooeffingcrazy   cutting yourself is scary. when i saw thirteen the...   Sep 22 2004, 10:38 PM
LadyXTor   I wouldn't cut myself...if i felt bad about so...   Sep 22 2004, 10:40 PM
feedthefirex   well some of mia frensz do it. ionno ive never don...   Sep 23 2004, 02:53 PM
faithin_felix   no i dont not suggest u ppl going around cutting y...   Sep 23 2004, 04:02 PM
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