wut do i do?, im so frustrated.. Options

[ineed2bluvd]

ok.. the last school year.. i had science with this dude and we had a lot in common.. but then they change my schedule.. and i dont see him for a long time.. i always stay for a bit in my science teacher's room with my cousin.. and wait until he goes home so we can go home bcuz we hav absolutely nothing to do.. and he met up with me everyday after school and gave me a hug without asking me if i wanted one.. and then he just stopped coming.. and stopped talking to me.. i heard he went out with this chick.. and then auditions for cabaret night were goin and he sat next to me.. and then some chick comes over and tells me to scooch.. and i did.. assuming she wanted to sit next to him ya kno? and then he mnoves next to me and he touches my leg with his bcuz the chick next to him is like.. touching him.. and then cabaret night comes up.. and he is with me all day.. and he gave me hugs everytime he saw me.. and then he asked me to go with him to find his bro.. but when i went with him he was talking to some chick.. but i didnt hear bcuz i was waiting for him outside the auditorium.. and then he asks me to go walk with him.. but i didnt go bcuz my friend told me to stay with her.. and then i was backstage for awhile and then i come out and my other friend tells me that he's looking for me.. and i said y? and she said she didnt kno.. so i found him and i asked him y he was looking for me ya kno? and everyone was around so i guess he just said that he was just worried about me.. and then we had a field trip as the end of the year thingin.. and he gave my friend a note to giv to me and it read something like this:
sorry i havent talked to u in a long time.. im really sorry.. its just that i had problems at home and i didnt wanna talk to anybody.. if i did.. i knew i would go off and yell at them.. i didnt want u to get hurt by me.. anywaise.. w/b
love, josh

i wrote back:
aww.. u kno wuts funny? we both had problems at home.. but if u need to talk about it.. im here.. im all ears..

then he stopped writing to me for awhile.. so i wrote to him:
u dont hav to talk to me.. i kno u dont want to.. just say it..
he wrote:
no its not that.. call me and mayb we can talk about it..

and i got his number.. but when i called.. he thought i was some chick named chelsey or something.. and i was like.. no this is melissa.. and he was like o.. and i never called him back ever since..

i just need some advice.. should i call him to try to find out the truth by calling him or asking a friend to find out? or wut?
i just REALLY need some advice rite now.. and if u want my sn.. hm0nggur1.. its a zero and a one.. if u want my email.. its joelpunx@yahoo.com.. LUV YAZ!!

[Just_Dream]

i read over your entry twice, and im still wondering...are you in love with the guy or not? If you are...call him and find out the truth....if you ask your friend, it'd only mix up the already confusing dilemma you're in. From my perspective, he doesn't sound too trustworthy....

You know what's funny? I thought the same exact thing, lol.

Anyways, ineed2bluvd, whta you said is confusing. You're not admitting that you like-like him. And he is very confusing. One second he wants to be around you, then the next second he ignores you and goes to some other "chick." I mean, it looks like he's playing you. But maybe he's really having problems and isn't sure who he really is? I don't know... Just ask him, straight out, "do you like-like me?" and if he pauses then says yes, then he does. If no, then he just wanted you there as a friend.

You know what It seems like, though? He used you to hang around with toa void other people but when he saw people he wanted to hang out with, he left you. Well, at least, that's what I think is going on. This guy is very confusing, indeed.