friend seeking advice.., what to say!! |
friend seeking advice.., what to say!! |
Sep 6 2004, 06:27 PM
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
ok...my friend has lived with her aunt for 3 years now because her and her mom dont get along at all...well now her mom is in the hospital with cancer and she had a heart attack....my friend has been really depressed and has been saying im the only one she can talk 2...and sometimes i just dont know what to say 2 her...what are some things i can say to make her feel better?? ive said everything i can think of and when i freeze up whenever she says something 2 me i feel bad..like that im not being a good enuff friend.
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Sep 7 2004, 02:58 AM
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Aznsorpor ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
during a time like this.. it's kinda hard to take in like jus comforting words... cause maybe her aunt and other ppl says it as well.. try to get her to open up to you.. and tell you ur problems cuz that would make her feel better.. letting some of it out instead of taking it on all by herself.. also dont feel that you are a bad friend for running out of comforting words to say.. as long as u try and u are there to support her through this bad time you are being a good friend..
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sunissed14127 friend seeking advice.. Sep 6 2004, 06:27 PM
MyVermilionPlague That happens to everyone.
Don't worry.
Hm.
I p... Sep 6 2004, 06:38 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1 sometimes all u can do is listen. trust me. and in... Sep 6 2004, 07:10 PM
silver rain yeah, just listen to her. it will mean a lot that ... Sep 6 2004, 09:02 PM
conster Listen to what she has to say. Advise her and tell... Sep 6 2004, 09:18 PM
airam Try these links:
http://home.blarg.net/~charlatn/d... Sep 6 2004, 09:30 PM
F1R3B4T just listen to her, encourage her to talk about it... Sep 7 2004, 01:04 AM![]() ![]() |