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any tips on how to get over someone?, ..oy its so hard
myxromance
post Sep 2 2004, 11:36 AM
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my boyfriend broke up woth me 3 times. He did all the breaking up for me. Everytime he did, Id always take him back. But this breakup is for real now. Its been like 2 months since we talked. I keep myself busy by hanging out with a whole bunch of my guy friends. I fashioned this idea in my mind that my ex boyfriend's intentions of leaving me were nothing but jibberish BS. But he was my everything. So, Ive been hanging on to a string of hope for the last few months. Any other tips to making my life less miserable?
 
 
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myxromance
post Sep 3 2004, 12:38 PM
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thank you so much you guys. I just talked to my other friend and she is going through the same thing. Now that school is about to start, I called him last night and I was very mature with him.
I told him that since this is our senior year, i wanted to get through it as easily as possible. I told him that i was tired of being bitter and that I wanted to patch things up with him.
he wanted to do the same thing but was fearful of my wrath. And he was glad that I took the initiative of staring over fresh.

Did I mention that he broke up with me for some other girl?

and guess what. Now he doesnt like her anymore...(sigh) high school boys. they never know what they want. I told him it was a temporary crush but he broke up with me.

So I guess things are alot cooler with us now. But Im still a little skeptical with him..I guess thats what happens when a guy breaks up with me 3 x.

But however now I get the feeling that he wants to be with me again. He says that hes gonna call me more often and whatnot.

I dont want to be fooled again. i know if we start dating again, he'll start off with the best of intentions but i know slowly, his old habits will surface again. Because his old habits dont die hard.

ugh. I just want to be single.
 

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myxromance   any tips on how to get over someone?   Sep 2 2004, 11:36 AM
silver rain   eh, i don't really know because i'm still ...   Sep 2 2004, 12:04 PM
DavidxN   get with his best friend, or get someone else   Sep 2 2004, 01:27 PM
someflipguy   The thing that helped me get over someone is tryin...   Sep 2 2004, 02:03 PM
conster   like u said.. he WAS ur everything... its time to ...   Sep 2 2004, 02:21 PM
slurp   word, i dont even know what advice to give you whe...   Sep 2 2004, 02:26 PM
captured_serenity   just dont think about it...just keep yourself busy...   Sep 2 2004, 02:48 PM
waccoon   QUOTE(conster @ Sep 2 2004, 3:21 PM)like u sa...   Sep 2 2004, 03:46 PM
conster   QUOTE(waccoon @ Sep 2 2004, 3:46 PM)He wasn...   Sep 2 2004, 03:56 PM
myxromance   thank you so much you guys. I just talked to my ot...   Sep 3 2004, 12:38 PM
MusicalAngel   i think that whats best for you now... is to be fr...   Sep 3 2004, 12:59 PM
myxromance   MusicalAngel = einstein. damn so smart. youre so...   Sep 3 2004, 02:50 PM
F1R3B4T   1) be friends with him agen but dont fall in. do n...   Sep 3 2004, 02:58 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   getting over someone is hard. well to get over som...   Sep 3 2004, 03:52 PM
MyVermilionPlague   It's really hard to get over someone. I had to...   Sep 3 2004, 04:57 PM
sweetdreamsx3   Find a new crush and soon you'll forget about ...   Sep 3 2004, 05:09 PM
aznsorpor   get over that stupid guy.. hes not worth it.. u ca...   Sep 8 2004, 12:48 AM
kbgirly   Think about "Fishes in the Sea" there ar...   Sep 8 2004, 02:17 AM
DrEaMgUy2K1   Listen to - Burn (Usher) and Dont Wanna try no mor...   Sep 8 2004, 02:39 AM
wind&fire   ^^^^bahahahahaha!!! yeh do that!...   Sep 8 2004, 02:43 AM
sxygrl4u159   date someone else. duh!   Sep 8 2004, 12:58 PM
instantmusic   join the military, and go psycho. become some sor...   Sep 8 2004, 10:05 PM
RiC3xBoy   date his brother   Sep 9 2004, 12:34 AM
moorepocket   the best way to get over someone is to live a bett...   Sep 9 2004, 10:06 PM
Just_Dream   Aww. You know, I have friends who are stills tuck ...   Sep 9 2004, 11:32 PM
souldreamers   omgoodness, I honestly think that the best thing t...   Sep 10 2004, 12:06 AM
blowpops69   wow i went thru that situation. except i went out ...   Sep 11 2004, 06:55 PM
smile4me   "your eyes are placed in front of you so you ...   Sep 11 2004, 09:09 PM
faze_O   wow....... funny....i was in this situation with 2...   Sep 13 2004, 12:45 AM
x0143637x0   yooh cant just get over someone just because you w...   Sep 13 2004, 01:36 AM
KrAzi3piNoY   i guess just keep your self busy?   Sep 15 2004, 08:04 PM
dreamerOi   hm same thing practically for me and er its like i...   Sep 24 2004, 07:07 PM
177emories   stop thinking about him!!!! :D it ...   Sep 26 2004, 08:53 PM
mouse_3k   find another guy? err me and my ex of 5 months (w...   Sep 26 2004, 08:59 PM
dispn0ygonekrazy   hmm well getting over someone is hard im still try...   Sep 26 2004, 09:03 PM
feedthefirex   hah. find a new bf maybe? lol just playen uuh uuh ...   Sep 27 2004, 01:01 PM
nyctophiliac   slit your wrists...then you won't have to worr...   Sep 27 2004, 03:29 PM
Too Asian To DIE   QUOTEstop thinking about him!!!! :...   Sep 27 2004, 03:36 PM
betrayedbytheducky   go to a show   Sep 29 2004, 01:01 AM
SeXyDeZZynSoCaL   you cant just get over someone like that..if you h...   Sep 29 2004, 02:24 AM
honorguard   Think about something else or think about unanswer...   Sep 29 2004, 03:57 AM
jennifish   do homework.   Sep 29 2004, 05:27 AM
ichiban   i guess ... find someone better. there's alway...   Oct 2 2004, 12:28 AM
sheepy   time will heal it. dunt worry :]   Oct 2 2004, 01:42 PM
PinkTrash   Dont get with your best friend, youre just forcing...   Oct 2 2004, 01:48 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   think about the negativeS?   Oct 2 2004, 01:54 PM
DoOdOox3   start to be open for other guys im sure there r gu...   Oct 2 2004, 03:23 PM
AsianUniQ   its a smart thing to do, just get it over............   Oct 3 2004, 11:22 PM
rainnydaiis   the thing i do is try to keep my mind off her.. ki...   Oct 3 2004, 11:25 PM


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