What the hell is wrong with him?, =[ Options

[ichiban]

[/B]Okay there's this guy ... we'll call him Joe. I met him in March ... and since then we've been like, superr close friends. We found out we both liked each other, but we weren't BF/GF or anything. And then I ended up liking someone else and I became his girlfriend. And things between me and JOE were sorta .. shaky after that. Because Joe really liked me and I hurt him :[ Me and that guy broke up after a month tho

So anyways, in June, then I started REALLLLLLY liking someone else. And I mean, really Yeah ... so I told Joe about this guy. Let's call this guy Bob. I told Joe tht I liked this guy (bob) .. i told joe i practically loved this Bob guy. and Joe told me, "you know, you're annoying me with this" and that really annoyed me. Because dude, you're like one of my best friends and you tell me yer annoyed by me just fo tellin you about BOB?! i mean, wtf. well i sorta ignored him a bit after that but after a few days we weren't mad at each other anymore and we were friends again, like nothing happened.

Summer came ... Joe went on vacation so I couldn't talk to him until the beginning of August. And ... well apparently Joe forgot about this Bob guy I told him about anyways, so then i js talked to Joe about Bob .. like .. js what Bob's been saying to me ... and well, jsut about Bob. I never told him "bob's" real name though, but anywayz. then joe said, "you know, i really don't give a damn" ... oh wow, i was really annoyed @ him now .. wtf was wrong with him ... everytime i'm talking about BOB he gets all ... cranky and ****. and i was so pissed off because i remember before, joe had some problems with this girl and his best friend and i listened to every single rant ... i listened to all tha problems he had and gave him advice. and all he can say to me is, I DONT GIVE A DAMN"

Yeah, and then I started ignoring him a while .. but then I saw him one day at .. the grocery store i think. and well, i wasnt mad @ him anymore and i didn wanna be .. so i just smiled and said hey. he later on IMed me while i was away and just showed that .. smiley face thingy. So i thought everything was okay. I told a coupla my friends bout what joe said about BOB .. and said that joe was just jealous. i don't believe thats true ....

And now school starts. Joe's like, IGNORING me or something! we used to always talkkk and everything ... after school me & my friend went to talk to Joe and his friend. So I talked to them and stuff and it looked like JOE was barely LISTENING. it's like he doesnt want to be my friend anymore or something. i mean, it ws sooo different then what it was like before ... it js sorta hurt. because joe's like, the one person i can't live without ... so me and my friend left and said BYE to them. uhhuh, they didnt say anythign bck to us .. so i just said BYE even louder and they were still ignoring me. Seriusly, this wasn't like before...

So ... yeah that was LONG but pls take the time to read it. If you want. So do you think Joe's MAD @ me, just doesnt wanna be my friend .. or .. jealous .. or something else?

Yeah. Thx

[sweetdreamsx3]

and i was so pissed off because i remember before, joe had some problems with this girl and his best friend and i listened to every single rant ... i listened to all tha problems he had and gave him advice. and all he can say to me is, I DONT GIVE A DAMN"

If you get mad easily, don't read my comment.
First off, you obviously hurted Joe when you both liked each other and you decided to date someone else. I'm pretty sure. In fact, I know that he still likes you and with all this nonstop talking about "Bob", it's making him mad because he doesn't care at all. You can blab on and on and he still won't care.

And at that time when you listened to him, he didn't like you. It was until later, right? And since you're his friend, then you should listen to him unless he or you did something wrong.

Really, if you're going to date another guy when "Joe" liked you and you liked him too and you guys happen to be friends, why are you going to hurt him? You hurted him and yet you expect him to still be there for you, acting as if nothing happened.

To answer your question, yes, he is jealous. And just stop talking about "Bob". He won't ever care.