boyfriends, wat 2 do Options

[LoST SouL]

yes idk wat do do my b/f keeps yellin at me n its gettin on my nevers n i kant stand bein single but i still do love him is lovin him the rite thing 2 do?

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

im scared of losin him not even tat im scared period.... i gave him everythin i have nuthin left name it i gave it 2 him.... n getin my heart broken makes me weaker in the past b4 i got my heart broken b4 i was strong i wasnt like tis it changed me 2 this depressed lil grl who hardly eva smiles or is very seldom happy... the times i am happy r wen im wit my b/f.. well wen he aint mad at me... its so complicated summa the songs from the evanescence cd espically hello and turniquet and taking over me describe wat i feel...

christina is absolutely right .. we're trying to guiide you in the right direction .. ultimately it will be your choice on how to deal with the matter .. however try not to be blinded by your love .. i've been in your situation plenty of times and i know how much it hurts but you have to understand and realize that you do have worth and you can do just fine without him if you have to .. like i've said before to you .. if you were strong enough to find love again after you were hurt before .. you can easily do it again .. you just need to take the first step in acknowledging that you two are not having mutual understanding on a lot of things in your relationship .. you gave a lot to him, yes .. but you can take that back when they don't apparently deserve it .. you have to be your own best friend .. don't do things that will hurt you .. and if you move on from this .. be careful when it comes to giving your heart to someone .. make sure they truly deserve it first .. don't become attached too fast .. keep in mind that at one point you were single and you were just as fine without someone to lean on .. it's an adjustment but over time you'll find it gets easier .. it seems the bad times outweigh your good ones with him .. and you have so much fear of him YELLING at you when you talk things over with him .. that isn't right at all .. if you can't talk civally with him then there's definitely a lot of problems that will be difficult or nearly impossible to fix. he has to learn to listen and be more understanding and he hasn't been to you .. so stop falling deeper and deeper in love with someone who doesn't' deserve that love .. at least not right NOW .. let him realize what he can be losing and maybe he'll come around .. and it seems you need the space as well to learn to be a bit stronger ..