A Long Distance Relationship, with the guy you know is true....... Options

[luckyxi3]

i met this guy on xanga and we started to talk.

at first he was just some guy who usually just ims you to tell you about visiting your site.

then later on we became good friends and i think he asked me out in a way. asking me about age difference and distance.

but here`s the problem.. he lives all the way in nevada [las vegas] and i live here in ny. another problem is he`s 19 while i`m 14 and he`s planning to go to the navy in 3 months. i just think that age is a number but IF we ever did think about getting married, i know my parents wouldn`t let me get married that young while he`s like already old and should`ve gotten married. i just don`t wanna hold him back

i totally like him and he`s an amazing person. we totally understand each other and basically know what each other says or feels.

i`ve asked my friend already if i should take this risk. she said no because it will be hard for me because he`s gonna be going to the navy for years.

i wish he would just change his mind about going to the navy and move here to ny.. but i don`t wanna change what he thought about in years and the fact that i`ve only been in his life not that long. that`s only destiny at work if it does really happen.

what would you do or what should i do? let go of the guy i know could be mr. right or just go for it and find out the consequences?

he always told me to think before i do or say anything because it will eventually always end up with consequences. well i`ve thought about it for so long and i don`t know what are my consequences...

[*hcosurfkid*]

My older sister is 17, and this summer we went on a cruise (mariner fo teh seas) and it was 1 week in teh caribbean.. On teh first day me and my sister and like all the 350 kids ages 14-18 bonded really well and had thei own groups of frirends.. MEa nd ym sister met these Kids andy and scott.. MY sister fell in lvoe with the kid andy and didnt want to leave th cruise.. My parents still dont know about this kid... but anyways, on the last dya of the cruise we all gto massively drunk adn my sister mad out with this kid andy for a really long time.. SHe cried almost the whole 3 hours home on the plane ride from flordia.. Now andy and scott and me bonded liek we were brothes so it was emotional for mee 2. But besides the point they live nin Wisconsin and we liek in Massachusetts ont eh coast.. That si a long way.. But we keep in touch by aim and other things.. NExt summa my sister is gunna drive down there and stay there for most of the summa. im going wit h ehr.. i cant wait.. So there is nutten wrong with a long distance relaitonship..