bffl and crush, ...kinda stuck? Options

[xxdaydreamer143]

hey i need you guy's help on this one..here's the story: i liked this guy for 2 years..and i guess u can say i annoyed my best friend by telling her all these things, all the time (like "wow..he's cute..." stuff like that)..well in the second yr i started liking him she decided she wanted to get to know him, as well...she still kept sayig bad things about him but i just brushed it off..however, in this dance we had at school she kept dancing with him and all this other stuff that kinda annoyed me but i just let it go...anywho, i told him i liked him ..and he supposedly likes me too..but then my best friend comes telling me that she likes him too...(even tho i knew cuz it was so obvious)..and she goes telling him she likes him too..ok, i admire and respect my best friend so much, and i know i cant do anything to stop someone else's feelings...but it really annoys me when she tells me all these things like "what if he asks me out"..or " i wanna look pretty for him"...i definately dont want to lose friendship over a boy..but how do i tell her these things are annoying me?..am i just being a cruel, selfish person?..also...i think the boy we both like is starting to feel really uncomfortable with all this ..and i dont want to lose him...i really really liked this guy for 2 yrs and even said no to other boys who asked me out...but its not like he asked me out yet ...what do i do? ...(sorry this is so long but thank you for reading it.)

[inthemudhole]

Hm.
I think both of you should just find other guys.
But that's hard to do.. I know from experience.
I was in a very similar situation at the end of the school year last year. It reaaaaaally sucked. Except the other girl wasn't my best friend, but anyway. I just moved on to another crush, and it turned out well.

I think you should tell her how you feel about all of this. It's good to tell her that so she knows how much it bothers you.

I would move on, and hope that she does the same.