boyfriends, wat 2 do Options

[LoST SouL]

yes idk wat do do my b/f keeps yellin at me n its gettin on my nevers n i kant stand bein single but i still do love him is lovin him the rite thing 2 do?

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

ive neva been single in my life n i hate bein lonly its the most depressing feelin in the world n yes i have friends but friends kant give the same feelin as a b/f n its very depressin w/o that feel.. at lest 4 me....

i understand how you feel .. nobody really likes to be lonely .. but what you have to understand is that when you are better off alone rather than being in a relationship where you don't seem happy it's not worth staying in it. be patient and wait for the right person to come along.. someone who'll make you feel good and happy and respects you .. to say that you've never been single in your life is an overexxageration.. there was at least one point in time that you were single and perfectly fine without someone else in your life. what you have to realize about what love is is that it's a PLUS in life .. but you can do equally well without one if need be. don't make yourself become dependent on a person. you can do everything for yourself sufficiently .. that's why you were made an invdividual.. so that you don't lean on someone else as your crutch your whole life .. you need to learn to walk by yourself.. it'll be lonely and depressing in the beginning but you'll slowly find it gets easier over time .. certainly friends don't give the same feeling as a boyfriend .. but know that friends care about you the same, if not more, than a boyfriend would.. so learn to suck it up and be strong when you need to .. don't be weak and feel you can't get by on your own because you're wrong .. you can do it if you put your mind to it..

also in response to another previous post .. you may think now that you love him more than anything in the world .. but slowly you'll find that changing .. i'm sure in the past with your other boyfriends you've felt the same exact way .. that you couldn't be without them .. that you cared about them more than anything and you didn't want to not be by their side .. you have to take those situations into consideration every time you become blind to the fact that you can be just as well off alone for a duration of time .. it isn't a lose lose situation for you whether you stay or go .. it's smarter for you to let go sometimes and let nature take its course..as i've said before.. if you were meant to be with him .. in the future your paths will cross .. and you might end up finding someone else that treats you even better in that time and you'll wonder why you were so scared to let someone else go in the past .. this is what love is all about .. it has it's ups and downs .. it's hard always to let go .. but you are still living .. and you do eventually find someone else who makes you feel the same, if not better, than the last person you were with .. be open to meet new people .. you're still young and have a whole life ahead of you .. it would seem like torture if you were to rush in saying that he's THE ONE and it turns out he's not .. life is only too short when you know you're with the perfect person for you .. and you still have yet to find that person..