FRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS Options

[sailornaruru]

IM SOO F-IN PISSED OFF

see...myf riend, she hooked me up with my boifriend and NOW she likes him. <<<thats not why im pissed

See...when she told me she liked Him..i was like..it's ok..its just a lil crush..nothin to worry bout....but then..she started saying she liekd him more and more and more. And she keeps saying that shecries at night because shewants me to be happyand not ruin me and my boyfriends life. If she didn't want to ruin it, then why does she even bother to keep telling me her feelings?

The reason why im soo pissed off is because she said..she wants to forget about her crush on my boifriend...And when she said that, i was like ok..put it in the past or try..so i tried and now, all she says on aim is *sigh* uum...yah.i derno

IT F-IN PISSES ME OFF

I mean..if shes wants to burry it in the sand..she shouldn't kick the sand back off!!!!!

man im juss soooooooooo pissed off

[ill_lil_girl]

yah. i been through this one too. and yes, i completely feel you.

first of all, think about how much you love your new man, and if you are willing to keep it this seriously. secondly, think about your friend, how much time you spend with her.

then think. pick whichever one you feel you have a better future with. you don't want to live your life with a back-seat driver (ur frind) who can't even make up her mind whether she wants to be your friend or take your man. you also don't want to lose a frind over a man if you're not willing to get serious.

tell your friend how you feel. tell your new man how you feel, and if possible, have all three of you sit down and talk about it. this is the most important step. what if you let your man be with your friend, but he is not willing to go out with her. everybody loses, nobody wins. so have a nice talk with them. unlike what they usually say, dating is not just a game, it's a milestone to your emotional and romantic future.

good luck, and i hope i helped.