Age Limit? |
 Jul 22 2004, 10:57 PM
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I like a 17 year old and he likes me. (14 by the way.) But he says the age difference is bad because its "like rape." Wtf? Is it bad to go out with a guy 3 years older than you?
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Aug 21 2004, 10:02 AM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
ok, i don't think it is that bad, because i went out with a 16 year old and i am 13. remember that when he turns 18 you are going to still be 14 (or maybe 15) and THEN it's rape. Which could put him in jail or probation or something and that would suck. If he likes you, he likes you, but you also have to put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to go to jail or get in REALLY big trouble for a girl who doesn't want a life long relationship..just a year or so? I know i wouldn't. Just my opinion. If you guys aren't planning to have sex, then you are in good shape. Except for the fact that when he turns 18, he might WANT to have sex and if he can't have it with you he might turn to other girls and cheat. Anyways, best if luck. Have a good one.
 EDIT: I just remembered...in Connecticut there is a two year rule that doesn't let you go out with people who are two years older than you (if you are under 18). WOULDN'T THAT SUCK!?? |
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cynthia_bell Age Limit? Jul 22 2004, 10:57 PM
initial-seven ummm....i dont think so.....but it would be kinda ... Jul 22 2004, 11:00 PM cynthia_bell We go to the same HS and stuff.. Jul 22 2004, 11:02 PM J.K ermmm...i dont think its toooo bad...i went out wi... Jul 22 2004, 11:02 PM LiNHy POO im 13... and im with my boyfriend who is 17 too... Jul 22 2004, 11:03 PM cynthia_bell Thank you! I'm not the only one! Jul 22 2004, 11:05 PM initial-seven but, your still kinda young, so like when he gradu... Jul 22 2004, 11:05 PM cynthia_bell Thats fine. I'm not looking for a life time re... Jul 22 2004, 11:06 PM NawtyLilAznChic uhh...i dont mean ta b sexist but its jus gross if... Jul 22 2004, 11:06 PM cynthia_bell Lol. I'm 14. Hes 17. Jul 22 2004, 11:07 PM NawtyLilAznChic QUOTE(cynthia_bell @ Jul 23 2004, 12:07 AM)Lo... Jul 22 2004, 11:08 PM FreeStickers I dont think it's a bad thing. I'm 15 and... Jul 22 2004, 11:33 PM xxxlilazngrlxxx it`s not rape unless u hab sex with him, and e... Jul 22 2004, 11:53 PM defjam_gangsta Greetings!!
nothin wrong wit it. it's... Jul 23 2004, 02:41 AM betrayedbytheducky yeah im 14 too and my bf is 17. absolutely nothing... Jul 25 2004, 01:03 PM Blue Lightning I'm 15... and my most recent ex was 19 (he sti... Jul 25 2004, 01:48 PM SSJ Kenshin Where I live, people with a three-year age differe... Jul 25 2004, 10:17 PM kraziegrl he seems to care too much about what peopel think.... Jul 25 2004, 10:53 PM Darkpekkle I don't see a problem in a 14yr. old dating a ... Jul 25 2004, 11:02 PM dani41790 no i realli dont think theres anything wrong with ... Jul 26 2004, 03:13 AM flip_dorkette hmm.. id say age doesnt matter... im going out wit... Jul 26 2004, 07:06 AM DoOdOox3 naww.... 14.. 17.. if u 2 truly like each other it... Jul 26 2004, 07:51 AM sandra its no biggy, just keep it innocent Jul 26 2004, 09:36 PM Weird addiction no...my ex wuz 20 and i wuz 15...no big deal,maybe... Jul 27 2004, 07:55 AM sweetx305 the fact that it's 3 years apart isn't a b... Jul 27 2004, 08:02 AM Weird addiction QUOTE(sweetx305 @ Jul 27 2004, 8:02 AM)now TH... Jul 27 2004, 08:14 AM l_baybeexgrl_l its not rape unless the significant other is 4 yea... Jul 27 2004, 12:16 PM tainted_angel I don't think age matters all that much. If it... Jul 27 2004, 12:17 PM someflipguy I dont think 17 and 14 is bad...but if he was like... Jul 27 2004, 12:38 PM sheepy err i think its fine. "rape?" gosh. is h... Jul 27 2004, 06:07 PM slurp i dont think it matters as long as both of you are... Jul 30 2004, 10:31 PM Winter When I was still with my ex, I was 14 and he was 1... Jul 31 2004, 04:00 AM waccoon Age doesn't matter if you love them. Jul 31 2004, 04:01 AM x_angawhomps Yes, It doesn't matter.. Although.. I think it... Jul 31 2004, 04:02 AM waccoon ^ We have a word for that:
Pedophile. Jul 31 2004, 04:04 AM x_angawhomps Paedophile* Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM waccoon QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Jul 31 2004, 5:08 AM)Pae... Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM sammi rules you My first boyfriend was the exact same age diff. He... Jul 31 2004, 04:50 AM x_angawhomps OH BUT IT CAN BE. Paedophile. Doesn't it look ... Jul 31 2004, 04:58 AM RiC3xBoy no, i dun think age would matter if it was even 10... Jul 31 2004, 06:40 AM nlgrl mmm depends on the state law i think.. in VA if ur... Jul 31 2004, 08:51 AM Hells_Ice uhhhh....if theres love then go for it Jul 31 2004, 11:08 AM CEP Well, it's not rape YET.
Wait one more year.
... Jul 31 2004, 11:47 AM babixlilac it dun matter i noe ppo that goes out wid older gu... Jul 31 2004, 11:59 AM cutielilsuga it is not bad
unless you are having sex with him
t... Jul 31 2004, 02:03 PM peach_kisses13 if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that... Aug 2 2004, 08:08 AM peach_kisses13 if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that... Aug 2 2004, 08:10 AM mouse_3k its not tht bad. its just like a freshmen going ou... Aug 2 2004, 08:11 PM naughtyneshe QUOTE(xxxlilazngrlxxx @ Jul 23 2004, 12:53 AM... Aug 2 2004, 09:46 PM xXRagxXxDollXx its not ilegal untill he is 128 but who cares Aug 3 2004, 05:08 PM inlonelinessidie QUOTE(cynthia_bell @ Jul 22 2004, 8:57 PM)I l... Aug 3 2004, 05:11 PM strwbrryluv8 yeahh... there's nuin wrong wit it. Aug 3 2004, 07:52 PM kyuubi319 dude, im 13 my boyfriends 16 and its alll good. bu... Aug 4 2004, 12:13 AM mph_182 oh well yeah i was in the same situation u r...im ... Aug 4 2004, 03:08 AM sunshine8o8 [FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=red]hey! oh dont wo... Aug 4 2004, 04:34 AM xXRagxXxDollXx i meant 18 not 128 Aug 4 2004, 02:45 PM kaleidoscoped No, it's not bad.
It might be a bit awkward, b... Aug 4 2004, 04:11 PM xjjajeengx i think its like... weerd maybe because im not in... Aug 4 2004, 09:07 PM cutey2kc yanno wht..age doesn really matter..onlee if u get... Aug 5 2004, 12:51 AM Just AJ I thought in most places it was, like, 4 or more a... Aug 7 2004, 05:04 AM ForgottenDreamz Wow there is alot of girls here who are going out ... Aug 7 2004, 07:10 AM frzn_lilyv no, steals aaliyah's quote : "age aint no... Aug 7 2004, 08:17 AM Just AJ QUOTE(frzn_lilyv @ Aug 7 2004, 8:17 AM)no, st... Aug 7 2004, 08:31 AM lurideyes actually it isn't any thing at all. it's l... Aug 7 2004, 09:38 AM LiL_RiZZLe i don't think it really a big deal....but keep... Aug 7 2004, 03:52 PM xsweetdreams12x If he doesn't want to go out with you, you can... Aug 7 2004, 10:08 PM SurferGurl2007 Im 15 and Im dating a 17 year old..when we met I w... Aug 8 2004, 03:08 PM Just_Dream If you two really CARE about each other, then it... Aug 8 2004, 08:33 PM iced__cappucino Be carful though! Aug 10 2004, 09:04 PM kbgirly Age isn't really a problem as long as you guys... Aug 13 2004, 03:37 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 i date people my own age but if they are uber hot ... Aug 13 2004, 03:40 AM soulovely it's only bad when you have sex... that's ... Aug 13 2004, 04:28 AM sweetdreamsx3 It's not rape yet because he's not 18 yet.... Aug 13 2004, 06:47 PM ErikMichaelscheese like everyone said before its cool if you guys rea... Aug 13 2004, 07:06 PM Levy2k6 and it's only rape if she says No and he doesn... Aug 13 2004, 07:27 PM x____duckii That would be weird, but yeah, I think it's ok... Aug 13 2004, 08:23 PM S2_DiViA_S2 i dunt think it matters.. Aug 13 2004, 08:28 PM AfGtHuGeTTe There nothin wrong with it. u both r still young. ... Aug 13 2004, 09:07 PM delightfullyinsane i dont think it matters just as long as yall keep ... Aug 13 2004, 09:10 PM GyrL_wit_da_KuRLz theres nuttin wroung wit it...and if you do hab se... Aug 14 2004, 01:17 AM iced__cappucino eh my friend is 16 and shes going out wit a 19 and... Aug 14 2004, 01:35 AM captured_serenity dont do anything naughty keeping it clean is the r... Aug 14 2004, 02:56 AM Krunk_Muzik Nothing bad with that. No one ever said it was bad... Aug 14 2004, 04:02 AM LeAnBaK age aint nothin but a numba gurl ma bf is 17 and i... Aug 18 2004, 10:53 PM scandalous_chic . Aug 19 2004, 12:11 AM literemix24 i dun think that 3 years is too big of a diff.. lo... Aug 19 2004, 09:02 AM isLand-kiSS wat?! look, it doesn't matter about how ol... Aug 19 2004, 09:10 AM angel-roh yeah i heard it was a statuatory rape...it sux and... Aug 19 2004, 03:02 PM stephinika yeah, well if you guys like each other, then i thi... Aug 19 2004, 03:06 PM xnastyninjagrlx WEll..once he turns 18..he's gonna be an adult... Aug 19 2004, 05:43 PM Angelos ahh i have a frirend how is dtaing someone that is... Aug 19 2004, 05:48 PM lyin_in_wait i had the same problem cept i think i liked him mo... Aug 20 2004, 02:14 PM laur3nw i think its fine..i would go out with someone 3 ye... Aug 20 2004, 08:45 PM babyxtc626 like they say..."age aint nuttin but a number... Aug 21 2004, 02:57 AM tallaznkate i DONT THiNK iTS A BiG DEAL UNLESS YOU HAVE SEX Wi... Aug 21 2004, 10:46 AM
sunissed14127 i dont think it is. im 12 & ive had 16-18 yr o... Aug 21 2004, 11:49 AM |
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