i feel bad.... Options

[sunissed14127]

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[Just_Dream]

ok...well there is this new dude in my neigborhood & hes my friend...hes been here about 2 weeks i think.well yesterday we were riding the bus,and i had to sit with him.we were talking and stuff & he was like "can i ask u a personal question?" and i was like "depends on how personal.." so he asked me how far i had ever gone to sex & i told him havent even been close. so he was like "so youve never let a guy feel u up or anything like that?" and i said "no not really....i mean guys touch my boobs & butt all the time but i dont want them to & i dont just let them do it." and he said "speaking hypethieticly (i think i spelled that wrong),would u let me?" and i said "no....i dont like u like that" so i started talking to my friend in front of me & when she got off of the bus he was like "Anjel, i want you to know that ive liked you since the first day i met u" and i said "ok...thats kool" and then he asked "will u go out with me?" and i said no......ok...the whole point of this story is the reason i said no is cuz hes REALLY ugly....i feel bad though because i dont usualy care if they r ugly or not....its their personality...but hes just a little 2 ugly 4 me.....should i feel guilty???

First of all, you're being WAY too judgemental because you think he's way too ugly. Second of all, you're a little shallow if you judge people by looks if he's a really nice guy. Third of all, stop me if I seem like I'm contradicting myself (although I don't think I am), the way he said "would you let me feel you up?" shows that he just likes you for your body, so you BOTH are being judgemental.

All I'm saying is Don't use looks as an excuse/escape to not date him. BUT since he asked you those questions, you can tell he's a PERV because he shouldn't be thinking about those things. If he likes you, he should like you for what your personality is like and such. Not so he can get some booty.