WaNtIn To LeT Go, jus dont kno how...help..i need advice Options

[LeAnBaK]

ok well pplz...heres da thing...i was wit ma boo for goin on six months...we had fights and whut not but it was normal ya kno>..anyways i cheated on him and eva since then he hasnt been da same...so yesterday i was gettin tired of him and the $h!t he does so i said i think that it would be betta if we were friends...so today i called him up cuz i wasnt finished talkin to him so he was like "meet me at da park" so i went der and he was like der was no reason to end dis relationship..ur answer is a bull$h!t answer and..etc..well why we were seperated or w.e he kissed a gurl named steph..which by da way i HATE..cuz she is SMUT to me..but anyways..he talk about her jus to make me mad cuz he kno it pisses me off..but im not sure anymore...everybody is tellin me i deserve betta den him and now i found a guy that listens to me when i talk...and actually understands me...i jus dont wanna be used ya kno?..anywayss ppl be sayin"follow ya heart"..but dats da prob...im so confused and dont kno whut to do anymore ..i think im jus in this relationship b.c i dont wanna hurt him or b.c i feel bad....does anybody have any advice?....it would really help right now

[stinerz]

I know exactly how you feel. yea the typical response is the "follow your heart" and I've gotten that plenty of times. Problem with that is when you dont know what your heart is telling you. My advice...think about it. Is he really a guy you can picture yourself being with in the future? if not then why waste time and hang around the past. Move on and find a guy that's worth having you as a girlfriend. Yea it's easier said than done but moving on would probably be the best idea if you don't feel for him anymore. Keep your head up and smile =) i'm going through a stressful time right now as well but i've learned to deal with this stuff. hoep you will too =) GL!