best guy frnd liking u, heheh...i duno |
 Aug 14 2004, 05:14 PM
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my best guy frnd has feelings 4 me!!!!! he confronted me a little while ago....i duno wat i should do??!! he asked me out.....should i say yes and get it over with, or go with wat my heart says and dont go out with him...im scared if i say no it mit ruin our frndship......so im not sure what to do!!!! I NEED ADVICE!!!HELP
      HELP PLEZ
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Aug 19 2004, 12:35 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hm.. if you don't have feelings for him whatsoever, DO NOT LEAD HIM ON because that will be the biggest mistake of your life. If you do that, you both won't even be anything close to friends afterwards... It will be so awkward.
You should think about him IF you think u do have some sort of feelings for him and think about what you like about him and what it would be like to date him. PLUS, if you both are BEST FRIENDS like you say you are, then maybe you do like him alot as a person, otherwise, why is he your best frienda t all if you don't feel connected to him, hmm? AND plus, if you think "oh he's nice, but he's not cute, so I don't wanna date him," that's pretty EFFING SHALLOW of you if you don't like him because he's not the hot, popular guy that every girl's after. You should consider what a great guy he is if he can be such a great best friend to you. You NEVER know what you could be missing. BUT DON'T LEAD HIM ON if you don't have any feelings for him. I've never had a friend that ever liked me (except my bf that I have right now), but he wasn't even a best friend. We were SORT OF friends lol idk.. I only knew him for a month and a half. But it's great that him and I were friends because we could connect well. |
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lil_ducky205 best guy frnd liking u Aug 14 2004, 05:14 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1 do u like him?if not then dont lead him on and mak... Aug 14 2004, 05:16 PM conster QUOTEDrEaMgUy2K1 Posted on Aug 14 2004, 5:16 PM
... Aug 14 2004, 05:47 PM sporadic If we all ignored our hearts and did what made oth... Aug 14 2004, 05:49 PM slurp do what your heart tells you to. if your decision ... Aug 14 2004, 06:07 PM MyVermilionPlague Uhh..
First off, do you like him?
If you don... Aug 14 2004, 06:17 PM wonder_chick06 Dude all I can tell you is to do what youre heart ... Aug 14 2004, 06:38 PM SuPerSoPow1025 go with your heart, cause right now im crushing on... Aug 14 2004, 07:05 PM Jordan Inc. isnt there a topic like this in girls locker? Aug 14 2004, 07:11 PM sporadic *shrug* It's entirely possible. Aug 14 2004, 07:20 PM xsweetdreams12x If you don't like him, then just tell him that... Aug 15 2004, 02:59 PM th5418 First of all. How old are you? By the looks of it... Aug 15 2004, 03:32 PM omg_melface my best guy friend is gay... I'm glad I'll... Aug 15 2004, 03:34 PM enticing. it's happened to me before. i don't really... Aug 15 2004, 05:16 PM Eternally_Yours dont go out with him out of pitty. thats just wron... Aug 15 2004, 05:27 PM lil_ducky205 i guess so.....thanx guys!!!! Aug 15 2004, 06:56 PM cutielilsuga haha girlie go with what you heart thinks for real Aug 15 2004, 09:26 PM dani41790 if u like him u should probably go out with him bu... Aug 15 2004, 09:52 PM itskatherine XD if you don't have feelings for him in the way ... Aug 17 2004, 12:45 PM mouse_3k if ur heart says u dont want to go out with him, t... Aug 17 2004, 03:10 PM dfly112 QUOTE(lil_ducky205 @ Aug 14 2004, 5:14 PM)my ... Aug 17 2004, 11:26 PM ichiban If you like him, then just say yes.
If you don... Aug 18 2004, 12:02 AM xXbabi_gangstaXx well u should go w/ ur heart...don't go out w/... Aug 18 2004, 05:32 PM sheddingtears If you don't like him then obviously you shoul... Aug 26 2004, 05:39 AM luckyxi3 if you say that following your heart is that you d... Aug 26 2004, 02:39 PM sweetdreamsx3 QUOTE(lil_ducky205 @ Aug 14 2004, 5:14 PM)my ... Aug 27 2004, 07:21 PM Cynthee ahhh~~well of course you should do what your heart... Aug 27 2004, 07:52 PM
silver rain eh, if you don't like him, then don't lead... Aug 27 2004, 09:20 PM |
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