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[inthemudhole]

I never thought I'd bring myself down to do this, but here I am.
Posting in relationships.
Asking for advice.

Story::

Okay. Well. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 2 3/4 months. For the past couple of weeks, he's been acting differently, and I don't know how to explain how he's acting differently, but he just is.

He's also been hanging out with a few friends of ours a lot lately.. and they're girls. He's always on the phone with them, and I haven't talked to him on the phone since early July.

A few people have recently said something like this to me.. "I don't see why you two are still going out. You don't talk often, and when you do, it's about nothing, really.. and you never see each other."

I don't exactly know what to do.
Yeah, I guess I should talk to him about it, but I'm afraid I might mess it up.. I might be misunderstanding him, but maybe not.

Uhm. So, what do you guys think?

[iheartsimba]

aww i know what you mean!


....except on his behalf =/

this is what happened to ME. NOT SAYING THIS IS WHAT HE'S THINKING!


We never really tlaked cuz at the beginning there was like this awkward feeling....before that we were seirously best friends. the less i tlaked to him, the less i saw his good qualities. and the more i focused on his bad. I mean he was like the hottest guy in school. But then I kept thinking all stuckup. Like his add, and his dislexia. and lyk omg he's 2 inches shorter than me! and omg hes like 5 months younger! OH EM GEE.
Wow i was a nerd. a complete stuck up female dog.
but to be honest, he just started to get utterly annoying.
And he had an obsession with me to.
My firend went over to his house and all these pictures i drew were hanging abouve his bed so he could see them when he feel asleap. along with my picture.

then i started to focus on those little thing and they just seemed to get bigger and bigger and and the bad qualities were the only thing i saw in him anymore.


anyway. a few weeks later i just broke it off with him.
he was crushed of course =p
but he serously was...and i felt horrible.
and he liked me 6 months later. then kinda stopped.
then i liked him again.
and he liked me again
but by then i had stopped again.
and he likes me agaiun.

and oh god i apologize for making this whole post about me buut maybe it could relate somewhat to you topic. i just got a little bit carried away in the story =X